"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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New plate didn't replied my first get together message. Suggestions?

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I danced with a random girl in a halloween party 1 week ago. I didnt kissed or make out but got very hot dance together. She seems interested and I got her number and told her will call u next week. Even my friends told me later whom danced and make out with her what she said to them "I already gave my number to ur friend so he is gonna call me next week so I cannot give my number".

I send her a message 4 days later to meet together. I texted something that not to be appear too available or needy like kinda busy this week but have a freetime for a small coffee on thursday.

She didnt replied and thursday already passed. I am 100% sure she gave me the correct number. (checked from facebook).

So should I try one more time and/or what could be the best thing to do?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GettinMyMindRight said:
Don Juans Don't "check From Facebook" To Verify Girlie Gave Him The Right Number.
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Got that now! Thanks. Still in a shoot first ask later phase...

About my question... What would be the right think todo?
 
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The right thing to do is to do nothing. If she was interested she would have texted you back.
 
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a simple case of declining interest

should have gone for the bang whilst you had her attention or at the very least a kiss

"a dance" dosent mean anything

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Your princess is in another castle. Noticed her changed feelings and her not responding? Get the hint.

Case closed. Move on.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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