"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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New plate didn't replied my first get together message. Suggestions?

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I danced with a random girl in a halloween party 1 week ago. I didnt kissed or make out but got very hot dance together. She seems interested and I got her number and told her will call u next week. Even my friends told me later whom danced and make out with her what she said to them "I already gave my number to ur friend so he is gonna call me next week so I cannot give my number".

I send her a message 4 days later to meet together. I texted something that not to be appear too available or needy like kinda busy this week but have a freetime for a small coffee on thursday.

She didnt replied and thursday already passed. I am 100% sure she gave me the correct number. (checked from facebook).

So should I try one more time and/or what could be the best thing to do?
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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GettinMyMindRight said:
Don Juans Don't "check From Facebook" To Verify Girlie Gave Him The Right Number.
Got that now! Thanks. Still in a shoot first ask later phase...

About my question... What would be the right think todo?
 

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The right thing to do is to do nothing. If she was interested she would have texted you back.
 

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a simple case of declining interest

should have gone for the bang whilst you had her attention or at the very least a kiss

"a dance" dosent mean anything

NEXT
 

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Your princess is in another castle. Noticed her changed feelings and her not responding? Get the hint.

Case closed. Move on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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