"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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New photos. new profile. Some decent results. But...

StrayCat

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I took some advice from reading these threads and took some new professional photos, cut my profile down to a couple of sentences and several women reached out to me. I just said, Hello, my name is Straycat, what's yours. I was surprised something that basic received results. I went back and forth two or three times and then asked to meet for drinks. These women range from 34 - 37. They all replied back with their phone numbers, but would like to chat on the phone first.

What's the best way to handle this and progress to an in person meet?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Spaz

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Your SS nickname sounds nice on an all women forum.

Perhaps you should 1st endeavour to find something less feminine as a start.
 

StrayCat

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Straycat was a group in the 80s. Nonetheless, I do not not use this as my handle on match.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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I took some advice from reading these threads and took some new professional photos, cut my profile down to a couple of sentences and several women reached out to me. I just said, Hello, my name is Straycat, what's yours. I was surprised something that basic received results. I went back and forth two or three times and then asked to meet for drinks. These women range from 34 - 37. They all replied back with their phone numbers, but would like to chat on the phone first.

What's the best way to handle this and progress to an in person meet?

Top form is a decade + younger brah.

Not doing it right.

You're ideally seeking youth, on early side of 20. Mid 20s top. Not lookin for baby rabies after she cratered her best years as a booty call.

I use lyrics. My bio is ******* 101. No baby rabies, single moms or old brods. The more offensive, the better it is, and the more responses I seem to get.

Pc culture is pathetic. As is, playing it safe. My dating advice is the opposite of what the cucks experts say. The more blunt, bold, and abrupt, more people will take notice.

Finally, women already have a *****. They don't need another.
 
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