iqqi
Master Don Juan
don't get all excited
, i don't live there, but who does? i am planning on transferring down thar....
, i don't live there, but who does? i am planning on transferring down thar....
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
nobody? nobody at all?
iqqi
Master Don Juan
no, sorry pendo. my body is not for just anyone.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
iq
i have a friend at Tulane
he wasnt much of a partier in HS but now hes pretty crazy
hopefully before he graduates ill make it down there
though ive herd many ppl call it the SB for college dropouts
i have a friend at Tulane
he wasnt much of a partier in HS but now hes pretty crazy
hopefully before he graduates ill make it down there
though ive herd many ppl call it the SB for college dropouts