You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This opinion gets men to avoid dealing with you because they don't want to be falsely accused of rape. Actually, a lot of false rape accusations are just bitter women that are angry that the guy didn't want a relationship with them.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yes, I actually think that men should have the right to sue women that deceive them out of money on false pretenses. The reason there are less women in prison than men is not because they commit less crime, but because they are usually given a free pass and its effectively legal for them to steal from any man they get into a relationship with.
Let me ask you stupid question: is that her picture?
I think this kind of comment shows the transactional attitude that a lot of women have towards sex. If she has sex with someone it's not because she enjoys sex or actually wanted to have that experience - instead it was because she wanted to get something from the guy and the sex was just a bargaining chip.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I agree with this. More women should and can be held accountable and responsible in society.
Not only were given "free pass" and whole lot of leeway, it even encourages by society, start counting our stars being blessed by trp.
when i was first learning game i approached this chick with full confidence and made her think i was this big alpha player. Later my nice guy side came out and conffessed i had feelings for her after our first date (we hooked up). She was confused and avoided me throughout the campus all year. Facepalm.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah, how about she takes some responsability for her own decisions? Or maybe she could stop trying to trade her pusssy.
