Background:
I'm 41, most women think I'm no older than 30 and married. Women say I resemble Johnny Depp so I try to model my body language to his and it seems to work. I've been reading up on the game for a little over a year. I have the first half down, but have problems closing the deal. I have no problem getting women to call me. This is my game: I go to a restaurant......with my wife. I use excellent body language and eye contact and a smirk. I pay with a check that has my cell # on it if there is someone I'm interested in . 9 times out of 10 they will call me. That is it, No pick up lines on my part or anything. I currently have 16 women that call me on a regular basis. 14 are between the ages of 18-22, 3 of these are in high school, one is 28 and married with kids and the other is 34 and married with kids, most are what I would consider 8-10's .... So you would think all would be good.
Things seem to go no where from here. I have several that have called me for over a year, 3-4 times a day. SO, I have no problems keeping them. They all tell me they love me and I've never told them that until they tell me a few times. I have lost a few that flake off and I have ended things with several.......but for the most part, these relationships stagnate with only phone calls and them wanting to meet when they can..... I keep them calling because most have boyfriends, some have kids and I'm married so.
I don't know if I'm too ****y? Most like me to talk dirty to them so they can masturbate but I'm afraid to talk romantically because that's the way I talked before the game. I did have one tell me that she is afraid to meet me because she is guarding her heart and I'm married, so I don't know if that is part of it?
So help. Where do I go from here? It's almost like for them, it's the thrill of them getting to call a married man, but after that, nothing but calling me and checking in? Instead of me being the other man in there life, it seems as if I'm the backup man in case they break up with their boyfriend. The other thing that I think could be problematic is each thinks they are the only one other than my wife, none knows I talk to others. Maybe if they thought that?
If i could only get this aspect down.
Help!
I'm 41, most women think I'm no older than 30 and married. Women say I resemble Johnny Depp so I try to model my body language to his and it seems to work. I've been reading up on the game for a little over a year. I have the first half down, but have problems closing the deal. I have no problem getting women to call me. This is my game: I go to a restaurant......with my wife. I use excellent body language and eye contact and a smirk. I pay with a check that has my cell # on it if there is someone I'm interested in . 9 times out of 10 they will call me. That is it, No pick up lines on my part or anything. I currently have 16 women that call me on a regular basis. 14 are between the ages of 18-22, 3 of these are in high school, one is 28 and married with kids and the other is 34 and married with kids, most are what I would consider 8-10's .... So you would think all would be good.
Things seem to go no where from here. I have several that have called me for over a year, 3-4 times a day. SO, I have no problems keeping them. They all tell me they love me and I've never told them that until they tell me a few times. I have lost a few that flake off and I have ended things with several.......but for the most part, these relationships stagnate with only phone calls and them wanting to meet when they can..... I keep them calling because most have boyfriends, some have kids and I'm married so.
I don't know if I'm too ****y? Most like me to talk dirty to them so they can masturbate but I'm afraid to talk romantically because that's the way I talked before the game. I did have one tell me that she is afraid to meet me because she is guarding her heart and I'm married, so I don't know if that is part of it?
So help. Where do I go from here? It's almost like for them, it's the thrill of them getting to call a married man, but after that, nothing but calling me and checking in? Instead of me being the other man in there life, it seems as if I'm the backup man in case they break up with their boyfriend. The other thing that I think could be problematic is each thinks they are the only one other than my wife, none knows I talk to others. Maybe if they thought that?
If i could only get this aspect down.
Help!