"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cloudtopsun2100

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I have been on this site since 2003 lurking signed up in 2004 then used this name for about a year then stopped using this site.. now Im back.. I didnt really post much before cause I was busy reading the bible and being an AFC but now that I have more experience I think I can finally contribute a little and hopefully give some good advice out once in awhile
My hobbies: psychology, language, skyscrapers, clubbing, jogging
My job: teacher
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Word, yo.

Sorry, how is skyscrapers a hobby?
 

Cloudtopsun2100

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just into architecture in general so one of my hobbies is researching them and chatting online with some of the people behind them for example the people who will be building the 2000ft tall tower in chicago
 
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