"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I can see myself getting stagnant. Where can I come up with new material for negs with my f/b / ex-g/f? The problem is the old ones are so easy to use because she keeps doing the same habits. However I don't want to get old, as she's even started to neg herself on them.

Where do I come up with new ideas? The other problem I suppose is our activities. We don't really go out that often anymore. I only go over when I want a piece of tail, so its pretty much always at her house, watch TV for an hour, have sex, then split an hour later.

I managed to spice things up a bit sexually by taking her in the kitchen while her roommate was in his bedroom but I need new material to keep her IL up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How long have you been running canned stuff? And you still can't come up with any new material of your own?

Stuff like ****iness and teasing practically sets itself up.
 
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Downtown Halifax, NS Canada. We live about 4 blocks apart. Why?
Because there must be something more interesting that you both can do instead of taking all the time like ,just walking, bike riding, for example.
Speech is silver, but silence is golden.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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squirrels said:
How long have you been running canned stuff? And you still can't come up with any new material of your own?

Stuff like ****iness and teasing practically sets itself up.
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Who said anything about canned stuff? Your right, that the stuff sets itself up. The problem is, it is the same stuff, setting itself up time and time again. So I am tryin to avoid getting old bustin her on the same things. I'm trying to add variety into my negs/teasing cuz now I only see the same targets.

I'm looking for ideas to expand my horizons.
 
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If your seeing the same girls and there comfortable with you throw in a little sexual humor if you havn't already, just don't seem needy.
 
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