"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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new look?

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im 18 and have always wore band tees... black band tees. i realized that this was onyl gonna hurt my chances with getting a girl so i a m expanding my closet i went out and bought 3-4 pairs of new jeans a set of lowcut boots and some nautica button downs i figure it wont onyl help me with getting girls but if i dress better i might start to gain confidence. any ideas on this type of thing and do i have to cut my hair 2? ( its at the eyebrow in length)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oh about the hair i have pomade that i can use to style it and stuff
 
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