"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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New Logo?

Deep Dish

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For Allen's consideration...

http://ucf.edu/~co262176/dj/logo.gif

The logo dimensions are the same, making replacement easy, and I included the white curve. It's GIF rather than JPG.

I'm a professional graphic artist, who's getting into freelance work. I can do a complete overhaul of the main website, for much less than other, equally talented artists. I have an interactive portfolio available upon request, done in Macromedia Flash. If you're interested, Allen, either privately message or e-mail me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've already contacted Allen about using my graphic design firm's resources to design and develop a professional and appropriate identity for SoSuave.com and the Don Juan Discussion Forum.

Of course, if you are determined to design a logo that is better than the one you just showed us, then I'll step down because I don't want to be involved in a competition to design a logo for free.

I'm President and Creative Director of a local San Diego graphic design firm. We recently acquired a new client: DRS Technologies, Inc., a multi-billion dollar military equipment developer.
 

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Originally posted by Demon
I've already contacted Allen about using my graphic design firm's resources to design and develop a professional and appropriate identity for SoSuave.com and the Don Juan Discussion Forum.

Of course, if you are determined to design a logo that is better than the one you just showed us, then I'll step down because I don't want to be involved in a competition to design a logo for free.
It's not important enough to me to warrant getting competitive, either.
 

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I like the logo, deep dish. I think most DJs on this site would agree that the logo needs to be changed.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thanks for designing the logo. But where's the genie? Can't very well have a logo without a genie.
 

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Allen's on a roll today.
 

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wowee a web design thread!

I'm an "ethical" web designer. My rates can be bigger than the T Rex, or non existent.

Generally, when I design for companies, I charge big time depending on the size of the company. Note, however, that my price is still lower than competitors, yet I get more "pay", because I am only one man whereas every other company has multitudes.

And I'm fast. Very fast.

There's a phrase I coined which I like very much:

The more people that work on a website, the longer it takes to finish
But when my church wants a professional website, or when I'm interesting in giving back to a community that has given me much, (such as sosuave...) I don't charge for my work. Not a penny.

I've also been known to make subsites for Microsoft in exchange for free access to a bar :D
 
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Good Logo Deep Dish

Dude,
I just wanted to chime in to say that I like your logo. By the way, why did you change your name from Inspector Clouseau?
 

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SoSuave.com:
Where's the genie? Can't very well have a logo without a genie.
I hated the genie. However, this is not my website; so, I have created a modified version with the genie:

Right here.
Cesare Cardinali:
By the way, why did you change your name from Inspector Clouseau?
Simply put, I just didn't feel that it was representative of who I am anymore.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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