"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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new job @ mall

.illadelph

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i just started working at hollister, and i have to ask for some advice. part of the reason i decided to work at a place like hollister is 1) it's something new, 2) to challenge myself, take action and work hard at being a lot more social, and 3) the extremely attractive girls that work there.

couple of months ago i would've never thought of working at a place like hollister, but for some reason, something compelled me to apply, and i got the job. i really hope this job can help me with socialization skills, and i wanna make a lot of new friends. this job is the perfect atmosphere for socializing. it's fun and relaxing.

i just started my first day recently, and i talked to people, but it was hard because a lot of this was out of my comfort zone. i acted confident and tried to talk more than i usually do. i felt uneasy at times, probably because it has always took time for me to open up to new people. i feel i did well for my first day, but i need tips on how to be more relaxed and more social with these new people. any topics that i can talk about without feeling akward about it? they seem really cool, but i feel intimidated b/c i'm new and can't relate with them yet.

any tips would be greatly appreciated.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sp1kez

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Hit on the girls that ship there.....not the oens that work there...trust me.
 

.illadelph

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i got the job to hit on the hot chicks that work there.

i think it's better to flirt with the girls at work, not the ones who shop there, it's just not a good thing to do.

i'm pretty sure girls that shop at hollister don't wanna be hit on. they're there to buy clothes.
 
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