"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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new job @ mall

.illadelph

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i just started working at hollister, and i have to ask for some advice. part of the reason i decided to work at a place like hollister is 1) it's something new, 2) to challenge myself, take action and work hard at being a lot more social, and 3) the extremely attractive girls that work there.

couple of months ago i would've never thought of working at a place like hollister, but for some reason, something compelled me to apply, and i got the job. i really hope this job can help me with socialization skills, and i wanna make a lot of new friends. this job is the perfect atmosphere for socializing. it's fun and relaxing.

i just started my first day recently, and i talked to people, but it was hard because a lot of this was out of my comfort zone. i acted confident and tried to talk more than i usually do. i felt uneasy at times, probably because it has always took time for me to open up to new people. i feel i did well for my first day, but i need tips on how to be more relaxed and more social with these new people. any topics that i can talk about without feeling akward about it? they seem really cool, but i feel intimidated b/c i'm new and can't relate with them yet.

any tips would be greatly appreciated.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sp1kez

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Hit on the girls that ship there.....not the oens that work there...trust me.
 

.illadelph

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i got the job to hit on the hot chicks that work there.

i think it's better to flirt with the girls at work, not the ones who shop there, it's just not a good thing to do.

i'm pretty sure girls that shop at hollister don't wanna be hit on. they're there to buy clothes.
 
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