New idea...

[toddC]

Okay, well first off to make a long story short, I really like this HB9. I've made out with her in the past (2-3 months ago) and she just broke up with her BF so I've been trying to make my move. Also let me preface this by saying that I see her almost EVERY weekend (shes best friends with one of my roomate's GFs)

Now I've been c0ck-teased before but this girl just sends me ALL the right IOI's and I've just been eating them up.

Last week, I'm at the bar with my roomate his girl and this girl, lets call her J. Well were all taking shots having a fun time when I'm like okay lets go dancing. My roomie and his girl didn't want to come so it was just me and her. Let me tell you we were up there for 45 minutes. She was grindin on me, I could tell both of us were loving every second of it. So I was like okay I'm going in for the kill. TURNED DOWN. So after that we left and somehow I lost her in the bar. I eventually go back to my apt pist off because I wasted so much valuable time on her when all of a sudden she comes in with my roomie and his GF. Long story short STILL did not get any.

So that was the most extreme example of it. Other than that, we just have flirtatious talks all the time you guys know what I'm talking about.

Well here whats I want to do. I'm sick and tired of playing these games with this girl. I'm assuming here that either tonight or tommorow I'm going to see her either at my apt or at the bar. When, and when I say when I mean when, she starts throwin some signs at me I'm just going to pull her aside and be like J, honestly I can't play these games with you anymore. Every night we hang out I always feel that your into me and I always get shut down. I think your a great person but you egging me on like this is just not fair. I like hanging out with you and I am interested in you but if your going to play me like this than I'm just going to go elsewhere because I don't like being played. So I want to know what your deal is...Are you into me? are you not? do you not know? tell me so either we can solve this situation or go on our merry ways...


Lemme nowhat you guys think.

 

[LegendaryGame]

todd,

Gauging by the fact that you danced for over 45 mins and didnt get anything afterwards, she doesn't know your intention. I know that may sound silly, but she may think you really don't want her want her. She may think you're just fun and cool to hang with but no more. To show that you want more, you must take over, run the show. Next time you see here have kino, you had it right by making out with her months ago. It's counterintuitive because in life you think first then actlater, but in this niche situation you must act first then discuss "you two as a couple" after she is blown away by the kissing, touching and even any more if you can. She'll be more attracted to your "manliness" and no longer put you in the "cool to chill with" and maybe make out category. You must immediately escalate your intentions at once

 

[toddC]

yea i feel you, but what i read in the bible was not to let her run you, so my thoughts on this were that as of now its pretty much whenever she wants to hit on me, i hit on her and then nothing happens...which by the way i made plenty of moves to make out with her on the dance floor and she didn't bite at any single one. So by saying this I'm pretty much setting down the law and saying i'm into you i know you are kinda into me i want this annoying game sh*t to stop and lets just figure this **** out

 

[logic1]

Patience man patience!!

Dont say a word to this girl about what your feeling. Keep your emotions in check.

You gain nothing by kicking this girl to the curb. Concentrate on other women and mess with this one when you have nothing else going on. Use her for practice.

Sounds like you already have the disease for her. Dont let her sense that you are bothered by her actions.

The key is having other women to keep yopur mind occupied.

What state is it legal to belly up to the bar at 19??

 

[toddC]

who said anythign about legal? lol