"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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New house, new asian room mate

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I recently moved into a guest house belonging to some of my older friends (they're like 50's there about) They gave me a sweet deal on the rooms and an added bonus there's a 22 year old international japanese HB7 student living here too! She just moved to las vegas from Sacremento where she's spent the last two and a half years. I guess she was going to live with some japanese dude but his place was a sty so my friends moved her in and since my little posse has broken up, (tragic really) I needed a place to go. She's only been here for two weeks and doesnt' know anybody. She doesn't drink, unless she goes to night clubs which she's done only once already. I just had her buy me dinner at one of the local diners out her (I drove she paid) where I got a full grip on what the scenerio is. I'm givin myself 1:4 odds on bangin her before August rolls around.:cool:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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your probably not going to listen, which makes you dumb if you dont, but roomate relationships are a bad idea. if things go south, you cant escape and are stuck living with them.
 

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Bad bad bad bad... stop it. Trust me... I've had two horrible situations with roommates. Something goes wrong, and you're seeing them every day.

Geez, there's three billion women out there, go get one of THEM.
 

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hrmm shes only around for 2 weeks and shes asian! and there so hot!... u really should try and tap that!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Whatever-- You should go for it!!!

He's man enough to deal with any fallout from banging a chick that he lives with/ near.
 

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Roommates? I have never heard it going well except in romance series... A cow does not wonder far in search of water if it can drink nearby... I'm wishing you all the luck and please post your results (if you come out OK)... I'll be a wiser man here... Hmmm a wise man learns from his mistakes but a wiser man learns from people's mistakes!!!
 

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Pfffffttt! What's she gonna do tell on me? SHE CAN BARELY SPEAK ENGLISH! I'm not planning on seriously dating this girl, I'm just going to rail her. The only reason I went to dinner with her was to gauge her personality and look for week points (and she paid come one who can pass on a free meal?). I won't be spending all that much time with her, I won't be taking her on trips to the park or the mall carring her bags, I won't be getting to know her friends, I won't be helping her with her portion of the rent if she gets in trouble. I'm going to take her to a night club, get her to take some kamakazi shots, bring her home at like 2:30 and rail her. That's it end of story.
 

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The problem with banging your roommate is the financial issues. If a regular girl you picked up at the bar wants more than sex, and you don't, well it doesnt matter. But this is your roommate, who is involved in a financial arrangement with you. If she gets p!ssed off, she might go somewhere else, leaving you to pay the rent.

Even if you have a binding contract, if anything goes wrong, you're still going to be seeing her EVERY SINGLE DAY until your contract finishes. What if, out of spite, she starts sabotaging your future relationships? It can happen, believe it or not.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don Argun: She's a HB7 tops. Nothing to write home about but still good enough to show off to your friends. (not quite a motorcycle but still better then a scooter)

Diplomatic: Her coming or goin will in no way affect my finacial arrangement with my friends since they own the house (and the guest house where I'm staying). I'm not worried about the spite of a 22 yr old international student. I imagine she's already pretty indimadated by the sound of clanging of dumbell weights and gangsta rap coming from my room at 7:00am, so the thought of making me angry is the furthest thing from her mind. Remember she's an internationl student with no friends so she doesn't have any back up while I am a seasoned quasi evil Las Vegas local. Sound unbalanced? Likely because it is.
 

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Haha bad English, foreighn girl, its so easy to minulipliate(sp?) that. All you need to be like is roomates do the sucky sucky, f*cky f*cky.
 

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The good thing about Asian chicks is they're extremely sexually submissive, so they're alot of fun to throw around in bed. Of course, I've never roomed with one I've nailed, so I can't speak to the awkwardness that may follow.

Of course, if she barely speaks English, that likely won't be much of an issue. Nice.
 

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SexinEar said:
Haha bad English, foreighn girl, its so easy to minulipliate(sp?) that. All you need to be like is roomates do the sucky sucky, f*cky f*cky.
The asiaphilia of white men knows no bounds.:mad:

Learn how to spell before making fun of a foreign girl's English. It's not cool to manipulate someone who's in a country alone and without speaking the language. Does it make you feel like more of a man by going after this "easy" prey? :trouble:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Gravyboat said:
The good thing about Asian chicks is they're extremely sexually submissive, so they're alot of fun to throw around in bed. Of course, I've never roomed with one I've nailed, so I can't speak to the awkwardness that may follow.

Of course, if she barely speaks English, that likely won't be much of an issue. Nice.
Again, the stereotyping continues. :cuss:
 

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snbatman said:
Again, the stereotyping continues. :cuss:
Wow, wow, chill man.... don't get angry...

Stereotypes are pervasive these days, especially on this forum.
How many times have we seen similar thoughts/claims?

Just give you an example: how many times have we seen (supposedly) black dudes claiming they just love blonde girls with blue eyes and they get them all the time because well...it's common knowlegde that blonde girls just love black men...:crackup:
Do you see many white guys getting angry about that? I don't...
And this is just an example...:cool:

So just chill and let people talk...:up:
 

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Le Parisien said:
Wow, wow, chill man.... don't get angry...

Stereotypes are pervasive these days, especially on this forum.
How many times have we seen similar thoughts/claims?

Just give you an example: how many times have we seen (supposedly) black dudes claiming they just love blonde girls with blue eyes and they get them all the time because well...it's common knowlegde that blonde girls just love black men...:crackup:
Do you see many white guys getting angry about that? I don't...
And this is just an example...:cool:

So just chill and let people talk...:up:
I'm not going to apologize for getting upset on this particular issue. Are black men emasculated in the media? Are white men? No, but Asian men are. Seeing some "Don Juans" post on this board about how "All" Asian women are submissive and that they will "Love you long time" is offensive to me as a man, not to mention an Asian-American man.
 

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snbatman said:
I'm not going to apologize for getting upset on this particular issue. Are black men emasculated in the media? Are white men? No, but Asian men are. Seeing some "Don Juans" post on this board about how "All" Asian women are submissive and that they will "Love you long time" is offensive to me as a man, not to mention an Asian-American man.
Man, I see where you are coming from... I guess you know that I'm Asian too.

The thing is I also get upset sometimes, but as long as it's NOT pure racism, I don't get ticked off anymore.
Actions speak louder than words. Everyday, through my actions, I'm the living proof that Asians don't fit the widespread stereotypes.

Just let people talk and do your things. Plus I tend to think those who are braggy, aggressive towards others, and who hold a lots of stereotypes, especially on the internet, are losers in real life anyway.

The thread starter wasn't really talking about Asians and "how Asians are like this or like that", but about his personal situation, it's all good.

Sure some ignorant hicks will throw in a few retarded comments here and there, but just let it slide, no big deal...;)
 

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Le Parisien said:
Man, I see where you are coming from... I guess you know that I'm Asian too.

The thing is I also get upset sometimes, but as long as it's NOT pure racism, I don't get ticked off anymore.
Actions speak louder than words. Everyday, through my actions, I'm the living proof that Asians don't fit the widespread stereotypes.

Just let people talk and do your things. Plus I tend to think those who are braggy, aggressive towards others, and who hold a lots of stereotypes, especially on the internet, are losers in real life anyway.

The thread starter wasn't really talking about Asians and "how Asians are like this or like that", but about his personal situation, it's all good.

Sure some ignorant hicks will throw in a few retarded comments here and there, but just let it slide, no big deal...;)
Cool, actually had no idea you were Asian too.

I try to let it slide, but the way the thread was even started, and then the "Asian girls are submissive; love you long time" stuff started to happen it I just had to post something.

Hit me up sometime when you're back in the states, NYC, and we'll go light up the town.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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