"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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::xander::

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Hey guys,

I just found this site and it's been making me laugh for a little while now.....

a few years ago I was completely sick of the way I was interacting with women in general, and the quality/quantity of women I was dating, I forgot everything anyone has ever taught me and basically trial and error'd my way into the same thing you guys have created in a neat little website here

it's quite frustrating as I would have loved to be able to just come in here and learn, but that's over now, and I hope to hang out here a bit and learn some things, and maybe pass on a little advice of my own.

Also, I noticed you guys have a health and fitness forum here, I am a MAJOR part of another H&F forum on the Internet so I suspect I'll be hanging out there a LOT.

I hope to settle in nicely you guys seem to have a nice group here, also, is there anything I should know other than typical forum courtesy?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ChrizZ

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welcome to the family. Just don't flame or troll and you'll be fine.
 

KontrollerX

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Hmmm, the only things you have left to know is the DJ Bible is what we go by here for the most part.

You can find it at the link on the bottom of the main page.

Also if you don't put your age in your profile your posts can be deleted from the mature man forum.

Think you have to be 25 to have your posts remain there but I'm not sure.

You could PM some mod about it for the true answer.
 

::xander::

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I don't do much trolling or flaming so that's not a problem.

I'm only 24 so I'll put it in my sig and not post where I shouldnt then, thanks!
 
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