"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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::xander::

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Hey guys,

I just found this site and it's been making me laugh for a little while now.....

a few years ago I was completely sick of the way I was interacting with women in general, and the quality/quantity of women I was dating, I forgot everything anyone has ever taught me and basically trial and error'd my way into the same thing you guys have created in a neat little website here

it's quite frustrating as I would have loved to be able to just come in here and learn, but that's over now, and I hope to hang out here a bit and learn some things, and maybe pass on a little advice of my own.

Also, I noticed you guys have a health and fitness forum here, I am a MAJOR part of another H&F forum on the Internet so I suspect I'll be hanging out there a LOT.

I hope to settle in nicely you guys seem to have a nice group here, also, is there anything I should know other than typical forum courtesy?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ChrizZ

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welcome to the family. Just don't flame or troll and you'll be fine.
 

KontrollerX

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Hmmm, the only things you have left to know is the DJ Bible is what we go by here for the most part.

You can find it at the link on the bottom of the main page.

Also if you don't put your age in your profile your posts can be deleted from the mature man forum.

Think you have to be 25 to have your posts remain there but I'm not sure.

You could PM some mod about it for the true answer.
 

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I don't do much trolling or flaming so that's not a problem.

I'm only 24 so I'll put it in my sig and not post where I shouldnt then, thanks!
 
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