I've beem looking at this site for several months now, and i have to say that I completely agree.
Here's my perspective. From what I've experienced and what i believe to be true in life, it all boils down to this: Women want to become a part of a life that has already been made. In other words, women want to join you in life, they DON'T want a man to,'join them', so to speak.
As a man, you need to develop your own life and identity before you can ever hope to attract a desirable woman. She has to be able to look at you and want to be a part of what you have, and know that you have the strength, wit, and confidence to get through life and provide her with a happy one.
This can be many different things to many different women, but it is a universal general rule.
A common problem that many AFC's have is that they want to latch on to a woman and expect her to build the life and entertain him in the process. WON'T HAPPEN!!!!
Every man's attitude should be that of whether or not she wants to join him. And that she is more than welcome to, but if she chooses not to, he is going to push right along and not think twice about it.
So ask yourself, what can SHE contribute? what can SHE do for me? Is SHE worthy?
...and...
Am I all that I can be?????
All this and the usual Don Juan details in between will make you irresistable to almost any woman!!
Here's my perspective. From what I've experienced and what i believe to be true in life, it all boils down to this: Women want to become a part of a life that has already been made. In other words, women want to join you in life, they DON'T want a man to,'join them', so to speak.
As a man, you need to develop your own life and identity before you can ever hope to attract a desirable woman. She has to be able to look at you and want to be a part of what you have, and know that you have the strength, wit, and confidence to get through life and provide her with a happy one.
This can be many different things to many different women, but it is a universal general rule.
A common problem that many AFC's have is that they want to latch on to a woman and expect her to build the life and entertain him in the process. WON'T HAPPEN!!!!
Every man's attitude should be that of whether or not she wants to join him. And that she is more than welcome to, but if she chooses not to, he is going to push right along and not think twice about it.
So ask yourself, what can SHE contribute? what can SHE do for me? Is SHE worthy?
...and...
Am I all that I can be?????
All this and the usual Don Juan details in between will make you irresistable to almost any woman!!