New Here- And a Problem

[Highroller]

Whats up, this is my first post...Hopefully not the last !!!

Anyways...Im kinda with this girl, who I like...

The problem is though, whenever i end up getting really close to a girl, the feelings just leave...I just stop liking her altogether...Once we start hooking up(and i dont mean kissing), i feel like my work their is done, and i dont want her anymore

And unfortunatley, I think its going to happen with this chick too...i dont no why it happens, it just..does! lol... is it cause she likes me more then i like her or what...i dont know...

i deffinetly want a relationship too...when i have nobody, i hatee life, but wen i find someone, i just cant stay with them...whats wrong with me here!! lol

if it helps im 15... sophmore...

anything that might be able to help me out here?

 

[kegger]

Try this, it may sound wrong and otherthan just trying to enjoy urself try masterbation when you are going to be with the girl or are with. You do not have to get it all up, just enough to stimulate youself. This can be done in a bathroom or just stinking your hand in your pants when you are out somewhere. I know it sounds wrong but it is the only way I know to get the hormone (atraction formula) going. You can also close your eyes and imagion porn or imagion you are judging a nude body contest.

 

[AC/DC]

Originally posted by kegger
Try this, it may sound wrong and otherthan just trying to enjoy urself try masterbation when you are going to be with the girl or are with. You do not have to get it all up, just enough to stimulate youself. This can be done in a bathroom or just stinking your hand in your pants when you are out somewhere. I know it sounds wrong but it is the only way I know to get the hormone (atraction formula) going. You can also close your eyes and imagion porn or imagion you are judging a nude body contest.

What the hell? lol

Dude, if you end up not liking her, then it's not supposed to work. Maybe you need to amuse yourself with her sexually and see how that works for you. There's many different aspects for attraction.

 

[Highroller]

bro...its not a problem with getting it up lol!!

its a problem with staying with a girl..i want a relationship bad, but i just imagine those hollywood perfect relationships, and thats what i want..

and i cant get...and every girl that i do like, and want a relationship with, regardless of how hot they are, i just...cant get into a relationship when the time comes

but when i dont have a girl, i want one so bad...

lol its no problem with getting it up

 

[kegger]

You don't have to get it up, you just have to make your self want female. I would almost bet those hollywood relationships are scripted as much as there movies. Just find someone you want to be with, if all else fails just be with her, do fun things together, and maybe sometime you will score and really feel attracted towards her. You can always do things if you dont want to go all the way when ur alone, have her put on a strip show oruse your hands, this all will build attraction. You can also try talking to the girl and asking her what she can do to make you feel more attracted to her.

 

[johnmich]

I dont know too much about chicks but maybe it is the challenge you like.