"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Going to join a new gym soon.There's a girl that I have liked for a lomg time at my current one.
Hopefully she will be there tomorrow, so that I can give her my cellphone/e-mail address.She has a boyfriend but I know she likes me.Saw her last on V day she was in the gym with her bloke.Soon as he was not looking here eyes were all over me!Also I got a great big smile when I entered the gym as well.

If not I may not see her for a while.Sometimes she goes latter with her boyfriend.I know he knows that I like her!

Should I take a risk and give my details then ?

What do you guys think ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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As her for hers and/or exchange info, but don't just give out yours. Girls rarely ever call first (unless they're EXTREMELY interested) because it's the man's job to make the move.
 
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johncrawford said:
Going to join a new gym soon.There's a girl that I have liked for a lomg time at my current one.
Hopefully she will be there tomorrow, so that I can give her my cellphone/e-mail address.She has a boyfriend but I know she likes me.Saw her last on V day she was in the gym with her bloke.Soon as he was not looking here eyes were all over me!Also I got a great big smile when I entered the gym as well.

If not I may not see her for a while.Sometimes she goes latter with her boyfriend.I know he knows that I like her!

Should I take a risk and give my details then ?

What do you guys think ?
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What is the point of joining a gym?
 
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md3sign said:
As her for hers and/or exchange info, but don't just give out yours. Girls rarely ever call first (unless they're EXTREMELY interested) because it's the man's job to make the move.
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I give her my details today.She asked me why I was leaving!
I told her a number of reasons and if you want to know e-mail me!

She did not seem surprised that I give her my details!

I told her that the ball was in her court & if I didn't see her again have A nice life!:)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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