"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OlympicTim

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Hey guys I'm new here and I'd thought I'd give a little backstory.

I'm 19 never had a sex and my only girlfriend was honestly fat and ugly as **** I just wanted to get laid (she never did).

There were 2 times in my life that I can honestly say a good looking girl wanted me. The first in grade 11 she was all over me but I was to ***** to make a move.

The second was just a few weeks ago when I noticed a co-worker had been flirting with me giving me signs she was into me but I never made a move because I was a *****. She seems to have moved on and doesn't show the interest she used to with me the last couple of days.

I've dealt with a form of depression because I have not been living a life worth living but I hope to change that here.

I am here to improve my life and honestly I want to get married someday to a girl I find attractive.

Anyways I've started reading the book of pook and am going to tackle the DJ bible after.

Anyone else have any advice for a newbie or can someone point me into the direction I should go as I start becoming a Don Juan
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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OlympicTim

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Ruler said:
Welcome man. Trust me, you're really lucky you got here early! There have been 35 year old virgins here who, after only several months, had completely turned their lives around and were living a much better life! I'm sure at your ripe age you'll only take a month or two to retain all of the information and then go start putting it to use

I'm in a hurry right now, but I'm going to shoot you a PM later tonight about starting to live the DJ lifestyle. Welcome to SoSuave brother.
Okay thanks
 
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