You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
there is no help for you here, kill yourselfOddManOut85 said:hi.well,i have been a long time viewer,first time poster.sounds cheesy i know.i am here to well,like most of you,change my life around.i felt as though i have needed a change for some time.not just with women,dating etc,that being part of it.but life in general.i look forward to hearing from you later.i will get into more later.i just thought i would start off.
OddMan, Listen mang, you can do it, the kind of attitude you must have to change you already posses. You see that post above yours? Feel sorry for him, he doesn't have it sorry to say.The Acacia Strain said:there is no help for you here, kill yourself
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The Acacia Strain said:there is no help for you here, kill yourself