"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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New Guy in town

Mycroft

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Well, I found this board a while back and I just decided to join. I am a senior in high school and already got into university. I have several goals and am starting a huge and major self improvement program that I am self-improvement program for myself and this board looked very helpful. I want to finish this program before I leave for university in the Fall.

My Program:
-Loose Weight and build up my body
-dress nicer
-become more personable
-become someone who is invited to parties etc. (popular)
-become less odd in a way
-become more gentlemanly
-get dates

Any suggestions on books, films, websites, movies, etc. to study? Also, any posts of interst? Thanks.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Which university are you planning on attending?
 

08aisaac

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Well, maybe you should adjust your goals a little bit.

My Program:
-Loose Weight and build up my body
-dress nicer
-become more personable
-become someone who is invited to parties etc. (popular)
-become less odd in a way
-become more gentlemanly
-get dates

If it's for self improvement, it shouldn't be about getting dates, it should be about being in a state where you will easily date girls.
It's easy to get a date, but if you
-Become a guy that girls want to date
then you will more than likely be sucessful.
Popularity is a good goal.
I suggest reading "How to win friends and influence people."
I seem to be advocating that book alot, but only because it's a great book. Not so much for dating, but for becoming great at dealing with people.
 

Mycroft

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
Well, maybe you should adjust your goals a little bit.

My Program:
-Loose Weight and build up my body
-dress nicer
-become more personable
-become someone who is invited to parties etc. (popular)
-become less odd in a way
-become more gentlemanly
-get dates

If it's for self improvement, it shouldn't be about getting dates, it should be about being in a state where you will easily date girls.
It's easy to get a date, but if you
-Become a guy that girls want to date
then you will more than likely be sucessful.
Popularity is a good goal.
I suggest reading "How to win friends and influence people."
I seem to be advocating that book alot, but only because it's a great book. Not so much for dating, but for becoming great at dealing with people.
Yea, I meant that sorry if it came off wrong. I will check out that book, thanks.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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