"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dice52987

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Let me start off saying that all the DJ's in here are like divine inspiration. My name is Danny, I'm 21 years old and I live out here in Boston. I was driven to this site by a girl who I was dating for 3 years, and we have a kid together. To make a long story short, she left me, saying that I'm too lazy, and boring, and that I don't take care of myself like I should. I have to ditch my AFC ways, because they're what's holding me back. I've got a whole boatload of backstory but I don't want to gum you all up by pages of reading. Physically, I know I'm not that attractive. I'm 6'1, and I weigh about 265lbs (I'm fat.) Where do I start to get on the track to true DJ-ism? Do I get in shape, or is there some sort of mental thing? I'm not ready to date yet, I know that, but I read somewhere that being a true DJ is always striving to improve yourself, and never placing happiness on women. But again, I don't know where to start.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Violent V

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HI DANNY THERE IS ONLY ONE PLACE TO START:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

DOWNLOAD BOOK OF POOK RIGHT NOW AND START READING IT.

THE WEAPONS OF MASS SEDUCTION.

THEN SHUMA GORA

THEN BIBLE. (I HAVEB'T ACTRUALLY READ IT TO BE HONEST BUT I THINK I AM THE ONLY PERSON IN THE COMMUNITY WHO HASN'T)

THEN START THE BOOT CAMP.
 
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Dice52987

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I have the Book of Pook already. Best thing I've ever read. Favorite one is "Secret of The Jerk." It actually had me scoping out ways to boost my testosterone. lol
 
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You can start whenever you choose. Start practising by being social to everyone you see. Make it your nature to talk to people.

And start working out. Lose those pounds, you will be a lot healthier and confidence will automatically come to you as you do it (Which will make you 100x better and natural). It's a win win :)

Good luck.
 
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