"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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New group of friends + weekend FR

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I had a post here a while ago about how my best friend kept blocking me and trying to get with girls i was gaming, this weekend we were going to hook up but the girl i was gaming was throwin a party and he made up an excuse why he couldnt hang out but really going to her party so i "wouldnt know" so i said, fine thats cool. I stood downtown sitting down by a bench pretty pissed off but no big deal. I was sitting by my old office building thinking.... I called up an old friend i used to work with close to Wall st. he always wanted me to hang out with him so gave him a ring. Turns out he was hanging out in the city also in Midtown... Got into a cab and we all met up and introduced me to his friends. I had an awesome time meeting new people and i was invited to an upscale bar VIP section. I met a couple of awesome girls and we bounced around some spots, Ended up getting a few numbers lol. So with that said.. His friends thought i was cool and invited me out to hang out last night.....

We went to Bars in NJ, then they got me a room at the W hotel with a view and the night ended up awesome. at the bar, The first chick was a smoking hot blonde and i had a drink in me... i opened up a set of 8 girls and my friend chatted up this other blonde in the group... I was kicking it good to the blonde and my line all night to all the girls was "I saw you earlier walking around and i thought you were beautiful" They love when i say it lol i guess its how i say it... i grab their waist and hold them close to me and get by her ear and neck (if that makes sense) anyway.. so im working on the hot blonde and i say "so... let me guess you have a BF?" she smiles and i smile a bit "Yea i do...." I said "Oh you do?... lol" she laughed it off but i came out with... "I want to take you out to the city and show you a good time ;) then i said "is it that serious? i dont think it is if he's going to let your sexy ass out lookin like this" (i grabbed her hand and twirled her around too see her whole body if you know what i mean) she ate it up.... She kind of checked me out up and down and gave me her number and i gave her mine. right after i danced with her a bit and ejected by saying "Well i dont want to keep my friend stranded over there but looking forward to seeing you again" I grabbed her lightly and kissed her in front of her friends, she smiled and her friends too (even thought they probably know her bf). Alot more interaction went on between her and i but too lazy to type it all lol but you get the idea......On to the next....

We went to another level of the bar... I opened up a group of 5 women and then they all flashed their engagement rings at me lol!!!!!!! I was thinking WTF. I couldnt help but laugh for some reason but i continued to try to talk to the hot brunette in the group but the fat CB friends came to her "rescue" so the blocking was in full effect. On to the next..... I opened up 2 girls pretty cute! and im focusing in on the italian with curly hair... but i kept kino'ing her friend lol I told her friend in her ear a line like.... I dont mean to bother you guys but i came over quickly because my friend though you were sexy... she smiled and i called my friend over to introduce him so i could work the curly hair italian chick. I went to work!... i pulled the BF BS line out "let me guess you have a BF?" she laughed and said yeah. I said "Well damn, thats a crime letting you out like this!... look at you... you look so good tonight" she was blushin like crazy. of course i did the... grab the hand and twirl her around move.... and she ate it up as well. I sat down and got her on my lap, I knew she was attracted to me so i kept on talkin some BS here and there... I started kissing her but she didnt stop me... a bit after i asked to exchange numbers.... she was hesitant at first but then gave it to me and offered to meet at the bar again maybe next weekend. I ejected and my friend as well. We went down to get more drinks (****in drinks are expensive man) anyway we got our drinks and the two girls we were just talking to were leaving... i stopped the curly hair girl one more time.. and said no hug and kiss.. she laughed and gave me a nice hug as i slid my hand down to her ass but really slick... man that thing was jiggly lol i could imagine she had a nice thin thong or g string under anyway that was that.. on to more sets... We opened a few more sets and i got 2 more numbers after that but then my friend jokingly says... hey man you gotta step it up a notch lol I was flirting with so many sets. Finally the night was ending and decided to get some food after drinking... Boom.... i spotted a cute brunette outside... i put in work on it and chit chatted a bit. I said something like "How can a guy leave you out here alone?" she smiled and she says she was with her group of friends, was about 7 of them. I kept on going with it and said i was from NYC and my first time in this part of Jersey. i grabbed her hand and yes i did the twirl again... i dunno why this works but i guess it makes her feel sexy that you want a over all view of her?... anyway i dunno where i learned that.. probably a movie or something but anyway.. after some chit chat... i told her i had a skyline view of NYC in my W hotel room,... she was with it. I grabbed her hand and we started walking. My friend was talkin to some other girls he was trying to bring in because we has separate rooms. While we are walking like 5 of her friends start calling her back and im like Damn! she took a look at me and she was pretty attracted so i said... what you wanna do? she said dont worry lets just go. So off we went... took her to the room, gorgeous view and all then it was on! hit it good! and the BJ was off the charts lol after we chit chatted a bit.. we fell asleep then talked a bit in the morning... changed numbers and she left.. met up with my friend for coffee and on my way back home.

Its crazy how hanging with a different set of friends can change everything when you dont have a wingman blockin you. We all want to go out again so lookin forward to more fun times. Plus may even hang out with fellow SS one day we'll see.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nice, this forum needs more of these field reports.


P.S. You should ditch your old friends, you can't hang out with people that are not on your level. That's why they neg & ****block you all the time. Kinda like the fatties ****blocking their hot friends. Btw, it beats me why the hot girls hang out with the fatties :confused:
 

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HariPoter13 said:
Nice, this forum needs more of these field reports.


P.S. You should ditch your old friends, you can't hang out with people that are not on your level. That's why they neg & ****block you all the time. Kinda like the fatties ****blocking their hot friends. Btw, it beats me why the hot girls hang out with the fatties :confused:
Sometimes its the fat girls that want to go out but invite their hot friends to have an all "girls night out" with them. I talk to the fat ones sometimes first to open things up and keep things playful and loose. If the fat girl thinks your hot sometimes she'll open the door for you to talk to her hot friend, once you get past the "gate keeper" its a go or ill use the fat one to get info on her hot friend, like "is that your friend over there? are you guys like best friends?" if she says yea or whatever ill respond and say "Ohh, okay... i saw her earlier but i wasnt sure she was with you guys. I thought she was beautiful" If she smiles and stuff... she may call her hot friend over and introduce me and then ill go in for the kill with the girl im really interested in and that way i by passed the C*ck blocker. From my experience, sometimes these girls like to play cupid and "hook up their friends" so they feel "a part" of the action :)
 

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Now this is a field report. Solid shiit man. Prefer this stuff so much more than most of the theory crap. Absolutely love your swagger and opening lines. I've been meaning to open with more lines like "hey your cute, what's your name?" but usually pvssy out and just go with "hey you look really familiar where do i know you from?" After seeing how successful you were im definitely gonna try to change it up and stop being such a vagina.

Keep it up man and best of luck with this new crew. Fvck those other "friends". I assume you know someone who treats you poorly is not worth wasting time on. I have one friend who is jealous of me and he negs/hates all the time - usually jokingly since im kinda a goof sometimes but it gets god damn annoying. He's not at the top of my list of people to hangout with.

Im curious to see how it turns out with the girlS who said they had bf's. Let me know if you bang them. Im probably gonnna have to steal that line too haha.
 

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Kenny Powers said:
Now this is a field report. Solid shiit man. Prefer this stuff so much more than most of the theory crap. Absolutely love your swagger and opening lines. I've been meaning to open with more lines like "hey your cute, what's your name?" but usually pvssy out and just go with "hey you look really familiar where do i know you from?" After seeing how successful you were im definitely gonna try to change it up and stop being such a vagina.

Keep it up man and best of luck with this new crew. Fvck those other "friends". I assume you know someone who treats you poorly is not worth wasting time on. I have one friend who is jealous of me and he negs/hates all the time - usually jokingly since im kinda a goof sometimes but it gets god damn annoying. He's not at the top of my list of people to hangout with.

Im curious to see how it turns out with the girlS who said they had bf's. Let me know if you bang them. Im probably gonnna have to steal that line too haha.
Thank Kenny, Yeah, unfortunately the guy that blocks me is my longest closest friend but i wont hold no grudges over females however im just not going to game girls around him but its whatever, its alright.

Try not to think too much when your going to approach a girl or a group of girls, i know its easier said than done but get some drinks.. relax and scope out the scene and see an opening or whatever girl you want to talk to.

I usually make some EC with the girl and go up to her and get close to her and say the same thing i mentioned above like..."i saw you walking around before and thought you were beautiful" It "sounds" corny but its how you say it and how you come off. Plus... make sure you smell good and if your drinking... have some good gum in your mouth. I use either Cool Water spray around my neck area or I use Bod Spray. Id say the majority of guys in there were dressed more "upscale" than I, meaning everyone was wearing button up collar shirts or polo type shirts. I was in there with a fitted T shirt however thats why working out IMO helps in the looks/sex appeal department. I was wearing something like this by Calvin Klein http://i29.photobucket.com/albums/c255/PhotoBvcket/6-18-20123-14-00AM.png I have the same build except my shoulders are wider. Always keep it fun with the girl however dont be afraid to ask the girl if your "Bothering her". I do this sometimes... For example... Ill have Kino going with her but just to get her "after me" in a way..... ill Grab her lightly and get close to her ear while my body is close to hers.... ill say "im not bothering you right? I dont mean to get in your way if your talkin to someone else tonight" and if she says " Ohh nooo Its okay" and smiles... You smerk and say "You sure?" ;) See how she responds.. If its good.. then proceed with heavy flirting. If you two are laughing and shes making you laugh.. get close to her again... (this is why i like loud music in the bars BTW).. tell her in her ear "you are too cute! i wanna take you away with me!" She'll laugh and then grab her hand.. twirl her around slowly and then say... wow...and smile.... Then get close to her again and say something like "so when am i gonna take you out?" Depending on how open you got her... This is your opening to get her number or even hook up with her that night. Upon your ejection or not.... I usually say it was so nice meeting you, grab her waist, get close to her and give her a kiss.. leave your scent on her from the good cologne or body spray. Anyway this was just a small example from a lot of scenarios that could play out. the main point.. make the girl feel sexy, wanted without being all over in a way... I guess this is Push, Pull type thing.... But overall... Keep it "Fun" ;)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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