New girl's very tight - any advice?

[mikeyb]

Hi guys,

Was with a new girl last night. Everything went great until sex, problem is, she was so tight I just couldn't get my d1ck inside her! This was after a good amount of foreplay so she was soaking wet and definitely ready for me, but after a few failed attempts I ended up going limp and needless to say it was the end of that. This morning we tried again but this time I was nervous after what happened last night and we all know how that goes... She's coming over tomorrow and although she's been really understanding about this after I said I sometimes have trouble keeping it up the first few times with a new girl (which is true), I'd like this to go well.

Any advice? Are there any positions that can make this easier? I was thinking maybe using a pillow to raise her hips in missionary...

 

[Mike32ct]

Your position idea is good. More importantly, grip your d@ck tightly with your fist before and as you enter. It will make the head rock hard to help you enter.

The tighter she is, the harder you need to be to penetrate. Squeezing it with your fist should help get you in.

Finally, I don't care how excited you are, do NOT j@rk off between now and then. Let the tension build for extra firmness next time.

Hi guys,

Was with a new girl last night. Everything went great until sex, problem is, she was so tight I just couldn't get my d1ck inside her! This was after a good amount of foreplay so she was soaking wet and definitely ready for me, but after a few failed attempts I ended up going limp and needless to say it was the end of that. This morning we tried again but this time I was nervous after what happened last night and we all know how that goes... She's coming over tomorrow and although she's been really understanding about this after I said I sometimes have trouble keeping it up the first few times with a new girl (which is true), I'd like this to go well.

Any advice? Are there any positions that can make this easier? I was thinking maybe using a pillow to raise her hips in missionary...

 

[PDubb75]

I don't know exactly what kind of foreplay you tried, but you can try to finger her first. Gradually add additional fingers, as she should loosen up a bit with that.

 

[mikeyb]

@Mike32ct: Great idea about the squeezing, I would have never thought of that.

@PDubb75: I fingered her a bit but it was mostly rubbing her labia/cl1t. What you say makes sense though.

 

[georgie24]

do like 50 cents says , " if it dont fit im gonna make it "

 

[Mike32ct]

@Mike32ct: Great idea about the squeezing, I would have never thought of that.

I learned this from a girl. I had really bad performance anxiety once. The girl gripped me with her fist (with just the head sticking out) and guided me in. It worked so well I incorporated this into my "game.". I always use my fist to help enter now.

Once it's firmly gripped rub the head up and down the slit until you find the opening and work it in, maintaining the grip until you are mostly in.

Without the fist grip, if you aren't that hard, it will just buckle and not enter.

 

[mikeyb]

Makes total sense from anatomical point of view as well - just getting more blood to the head. I'm definitely trying this!

 

[Leporello]

Let her be on top.

 

[loveshogun]

1) Relax.

2) Relax

3) Seriously, relax. She likes you. She wants to bang. Don't get nervous, even if you can't get it in

4) Remember, sex is about YOU being ready to f*ck just as much as it is about HER being ready to f*ck. Like someone above me said, penetrate when you're ready. Don't set an arbitrary deadline. Just go with it.

5) Finally, RELAX.

6) For tips 1, 2, 3, and 5, taking a 1/2 to a whole shot of your favorite liquor an hour before you see her can help. Don't do more than a full shot, because since this is a new girl, you will naturally be more nervous. No need to deal with whiskey d*ck in addition to that.

 

[Mike32ct]

Let her be on top.

I will respectfully disagree here. IME, girl on top is the most difficult position to enter unless you are rock hard.

Doggie is easiest because you can see everything up close and missionary is a close second.

 

[Sir Psycho Sexy]

I always put lubricant on my d1ck instead of wasting ten minutes trying to shove it in.

 

[acw]

Best position to Enter a Girl is Flat on Her Back...with her knees back towards her ears but wide and stretched apart...and make sure her hips up. Tell her to open up her lips using her hands...or spread her cheeks opening the vageina. She has to tuck her arms down between her legs to spread the lips....but it works.

I usually pin them down with my hands...using my weight to get the knees back and Wide. I'M above average in size....but using this technique works....and the women are usually comfortable with it.

Once i had a girl who was EXTREMELY tight....hadn't had sex in over 2 yrs (who knows why) and i had to force that biotch in there. It was a bit of a challenge...but when i got it in...it was worth it! :woo:

 

[mikeyb]

Thanks for all the tips guys. And yes @loveshogun I will relax .

 

[Tortendieb]

Had that happen with a ONS once... so thanks for your tips too guys

 

[vatoloco]

My current GF was a virgin and was a nervous wreck. Though she was quite lubricated, I struggled quite a bit as her nervousness was making her close her vaginal muscles. I told her to relax and that I was gonna take care of everything and she let go and let me take over.

Is this girl a virgin? Maybe the same thing is happening. If she's tense, she's gonna close up.

 

[LoneWolf]

the most important part about these things is to relax i think. that's what you want first before anything. you both need to go very slow, take it easy and relax. have fun, don't make it a mission. just have fun, take it slow and relax. oh, and finger her first!

 

[Tortendieb]

Easy, we have it all the time because our ****s are so huge

 

[mikeyb]

Here's how things went down: We got together again last week but I just managed to get the head in before it got painful for her. Turns out she was a virgin. Last night we did it again, but this time I used lube, a pillow to prop her hips up, and also cupped a hand around the base of my d1ck as the head was inside her (to prevent it from sliding out). After a while she relaxed and I was able to get all the way in :woo: .