(New) girls asking you to go on vacation with them 'phenomenon' ?

[muscleman]

This has happened with me with several girls recently.

1 who's head over heels for me but in whom I have no interest.
1 who I banged.
1 who I will potentially bang but have never met in person.

All 3 have invited me on vacations with them from 2-5 days. The first one wants me to move out with her to a new city and be her roommate.

Anyone else experience this? It just started happening recently. Is it a way to "tie down" that I just haven't had the pleasure of witnessing yet?

 

[Naughty Ninja]

This has happened with me with several girls recently.

1 who's head over heels for me but in whom I have no interest.
1 who I banged.
1 who I will potentially bang but have never met in person.

All 3 have invited me on vacations with them from 2-5 days. The first one wants me to move out with her to a new city and be her roommate.

Anyone else experience this? It just started happening recently. Is it a way to "tie down" that I just haven't had the pleasure of witnessing yet?

Could be. I've had one chick ask me to go on vacation with her and another when i told her i was going to florida tell me she was going around the same time and seemed to be offering to meet up. Both i work with at my part time second job. One is always saying "you're" so bad to me. Either they want someone familiar to fck them on vacation and want to get to know them better in a fun atmosphere or are trying to use it as a way to wind up together or all three.

 

[bigneil]

Yes, and taking girls on vacations isn't as much fun as you think.

It's hard enough to deliver the perfect date (4-6 hours), and it's even more difficult to entertain a woman for 24 hours, but several consecutive days of romance is not always possible - especially early in the relationship. She might be an alcoholic for example.

 

[muscleman]

I've been on plenty of vacations with girlfriends, so I know what you mean and it's exactly why it's a no-no in my book. It's an interesting observation but since I haven't experienced enough of these instances I can't quite pinpoint the cause - yet.