"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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(New) girls asking you to go on vacation with them 'phenomenon' ?

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This has happened with me with several girls recently.

1 who's head over heels for me but in whom I have no interest.
1 who I banged.
1 who I will potentially bang but have never met in person.

All 3 have invited me on vacations with them from 2-5 days. The first one wants me to move out with her to a new city and be her roommate.

Anyone else experience this? It just started happening recently. Is it a way to "tie down" that I just haven't had the pleasure of witnessing yet?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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muscleman said:
This has happened with me with several girls recently.

1 who's head over heels for me but in whom I have no interest.
1 who I banged.
1 who I will potentially bang but have never met in person.

All 3 have invited me on vacations with them from 2-5 days. The first one wants me to move out with her to a new city and be her roommate.

Anyone else experience this? It just started happening recently. Is it a way to "tie down" that I just haven't had the pleasure of witnessing yet?
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Could be. I've had one chick ask me to go on vacation with her and another when i told her i was going to florida tell me she was going around the same time and seemed to be offering to meet up. Both i work with at my part time second job. One is always saying "you're" so bad to me. Either they want someone familiar to fck them on vacation and want to get to know them better in a fun atmosphere or are trying to use it as a way to wind up together or all three.
 
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Yes, and taking girls on vacations isn't as much fun as you think.

It's hard enough to deliver the perfect date (4-6 hours), and it's even more difficult to entertain a woman for 24 hours, but several consecutive days of romance is not always possible - especially early in the relationship. She might be an alcoholic for example.
 
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