foomee
Senior Don Juan
So I have a new girlfriend, only known her for about 3 months now.
And apparently my ex, visited her "qqzone", which is facebook for china. Then she asks me for her number so she can talk to her. I didn't ask why.
And other times before she's mentioned becoming friends with my ex or asking just talking to her. But last night we were talking online and I flat out just said I would feel uncomfortable with this situation. She then tried to say she'd be comfortable with me being friends with her ex bf. But I still said no.
- First of all, I don't exactly know why she wants this. I should've asked. I think I asked before and she casually just said wants to be friends.
- Secondly, I believe she's going to ask her things like why we broke up and blah blah. I'm not afraid of anything, although I did cheat on my ex; my ex is still in love with me but I doubt she'd do anything to hurt my new relationship.
- Thirdly, I am very uncomfortable with my gf and new gf being friends. So far my gf has asked me and did not go ahead with any actions of this nature behind my back, so she's still on my good side.
So what do you think? Did I do the right thing and just said no? What would you do? How better to explain the situation to my girlfriend so she understands how I feel.
And apparently my ex, visited her "qqzone", which is facebook for china. Then she asks me for her number so she can talk to her. I didn't ask why.
And other times before she's mentioned becoming friends with my ex or asking just talking to her. But last night we were talking online and I flat out just said I would feel uncomfortable with this situation. She then tried to say she'd be comfortable with me being friends with her ex bf. But I still said no.
- First of all, I don't exactly know why she wants this. I should've asked. I think I asked before and she casually just said wants to be friends.
- Secondly, I believe she's going to ask her things like why we broke up and blah blah. I'm not afraid of anything, although I did cheat on my ex; my ex is still in love with me but I doubt she'd do anything to hurt my new relationship.
- Thirdly, I am very uncomfortable with my gf and new gf being friends. So far my gf has asked me and did not go ahead with any actions of this nature behind my back, so she's still on my good side.
So what do you think? Did I do the right thing and just said no? What would you do? How better to explain the situation to my girlfriend so she understands how I feel.