"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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New Girlfriend Wants to Talk to my Ex... I'm uncomfortable with it.

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foomee

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So I have a new girlfriend, only known her for about 3 months now.
And apparently my ex, visited her "qqzone", which is facebook for china. Then she asks me for her number so she can talk to her. I didn't ask why.
And other times before she's mentioned becoming friends with my ex or asking just talking to her. But last night we were talking online and I flat out just said I would feel uncomfortable with this situation. She then tried to say she'd be comfortable with me being friends with her ex bf. But I still said no.


- First of all, I don't exactly know why she wants this. I should've asked. I think I asked before and she casually just said wants to be friends.

- Secondly, I believe she's going to ask her things like why we broke up and blah blah. I'm not afraid of anything, although I did cheat on my ex; my ex is still in love with me but I doubt she'd do anything to hurt my new relationship.

- Thirdly, I am very uncomfortable with my gf and new gf being friends. So far my gf has asked me and did not go ahead with any actions of this nature behind my back, so she's still on my good side.


So what do you think? Did I do the right thing and just said no? What would you do? How better to explain the situation to my girlfriend so she understands how I feel.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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foomee said:
So what do you think? Did I do the right thing and just said no? What would you do? How better to explain the situation to my girlfriend so she understands how I feel.
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Better explain the situation? What the f**k? This situation should need no explanation...Is your girlfriend 12?

Your ex is your ex for a reason. She's in your past. If your new girlfriend can't understand this, then she shouldn't be your girlfriend.

Weird stuff like this would make me dump a girl. Or at least demote her from "girlfriend prospect" to "f**k buddy". I damn sure wouldn't trust a girl who'd think it was normal to want to befriend my ex.
 
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Wow, Of course it was the right thing to say NO!
You're the man in the relationship , RIGHT!?!!?!?
If she doesn't like it , she can get the stepping!

Set your ground rules with this chick....

your ex is a EX for a reason....she's in the past. You moved on yet you're with someone that wants to get jiggy with the PAST!>!>!!!?!? OH HELL NAW </ will smith voice/>
 
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