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Don Juan
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Hey everyone this is my first post here and I'm having a little trouble.
I've known my girlfriend for about a year before we were officially in a relationship. To be honest she asked me out when I first met her but the only reason I didn't is I had just gotten out of a relationship and needed some space. She moved away from my house and moved to a different school(We're in High School Srs bsns amirite?) She moved last March and we drifted apart as you could imagine, being far away and only texting about once a week not even that. Eventually she kind of forgot about me, as did I with her. She got a boyfriend and they were serious for about 4 months, until they broke up. Out of nowhere one day she starts texting me and calling me talking about how she is so sad that her boyfriend broke up with her and just needed someone to talk to. In a minor AFC manor I decided I could be her tampon for a while. I went to her house, one thing led to another and we had sex. After a while we decided to start going out. Everything was going great, despite the distance barrier (we now lived an hour away instead of 10 minutes). Then she starts talking a lot about her ex-boyfriend. I think I rushed into getting into a relationship with this girl. I don't think she is over him, and I'm getting a little jealous to be honest. She said that she loves me and she would never cheat on me and it's over between them but they still talk a lot. On occasion she misplaces my name with his, calling me by his first or last name. My question is what should I do? I am almost positive that she is still not over this other guy, and I've been thinking about dumping her, because she constantly makes drama between us during the week, like bringing up what her ex-boyfriend did or what his friends said about her and generally getting me involved and getting me frustrated. But when I drive out to see her on the weekend she acts like it never happened and everything is amazing when I'm with her. So Don Juans, what do you think is the appropriate response to this? Should I stick with my gut and dump her or should I continue this and see where it goes, possibly ending in more pain, but having more sexy time?
I've known my girlfriend for about a year before we were officially in a relationship. To be honest she asked me out when I first met her but the only reason I didn't is I had just gotten out of a relationship and needed some space. She moved away from my house and moved to a different school(We're in High School Srs bsns amirite?) She moved last March and we drifted apart as you could imagine, being far away and only texting about once a week not even that. Eventually she kind of forgot about me, as did I with her. She got a boyfriend and they were serious for about 4 months, until they broke up. Out of nowhere one day she starts texting me and calling me talking about how she is so sad that her boyfriend broke up with her and just needed someone to talk to. In a minor AFC manor I decided I could be her tampon for a while. I went to her house, one thing led to another and we had sex. After a while we decided to start going out. Everything was going great, despite the distance barrier (we now lived an hour away instead of 10 minutes). Then she starts talking a lot about her ex-boyfriend. I think I rushed into getting into a relationship with this girl. I don't think she is over him, and I'm getting a little jealous to be honest. She said that she loves me and she would never cheat on me and it's over between them but they still talk a lot. On occasion she misplaces my name with his, calling me by his first or last name. My question is what should I do? I am almost positive that she is still not over this other guy, and I've been thinking about dumping her, because she constantly makes drama between us during the week, like bringing up what her ex-boyfriend did or what his friends said about her and generally getting me involved and getting me frustrated. But when I drive out to see her on the weekend she acts like it never happened and everything is amazing when I'm with her. So Don Juans, what do you think is the appropriate response to this? Should I stick with my gut and dump her or should I continue this and see where it goes, possibly ending in more pain, but having more sexy time?