Ok heres the deal, haven't had a chick that ive needed advice on in a long time, but I recent started a new summer job and met this cute girl whom is a coworker. From the start I was friendly but remained reserved and mysterious. I know I was deft talked up by the other women whom work there that do know of my achievements on both the academic and athletic aspects. So I had a feeling she would be into me.
Anyways thats irregardless I decided the other day to ask her out just like I would do with any other chick. She accepted and sadly we had to cancell the date b/c of my own personal issues and once b/c of a timming problem on her side, but she did call up and want to set it for the next day which I accepted with some reservations.
Upon going on the date there was alot of touching indirectly either foot grazings wether accidental or not during dinner but occured quite often as well as alot of contact during the course of a movie (her choice not mine, Im not big on movies for a first date but, I did have enough background info on her from work do make it feasible) with her throughout the movie in which she would be basically leaning on me where it got to the point i just put my arm around here, I usually take the 1st date extremly slow to show a slight amount of disinterest to get the girl wanting more for date #2.
Anyways at the end of the evening she asks me not to tell our boss about us going out since she says our boss thinks im into her allready where she doesnt like us doing things together during the job not to mention a relationship would upset the boss even more. I kindly agreed but what startled me is the fact she said relationship and also during the date kidded about marriage which to me bothers me since I assume she can be immature being only 18y/o. What do you ladies and gents feel on that aspect.
More or less I think im in if I make anymore on her its just I dont want to get stuck with someone whos going to hassel me or think its something much more at such an early point in the relationship. Any info will be much appreciated.
Anyways thats irregardless I decided the other day to ask her out just like I would do with any other chick. She accepted and sadly we had to cancell the date b/c of my own personal issues and once b/c of a timming problem on her side, but she did call up and want to set it for the next day which I accepted with some reservations.
Upon going on the date there was alot of touching indirectly either foot grazings wether accidental or not during dinner but occured quite often as well as alot of contact during the course of a movie (her choice not mine, Im not big on movies for a first date but, I did have enough background info on her from work do make it feasible) with her throughout the movie in which she would be basically leaning on me where it got to the point i just put my arm around here, I usually take the 1st date extremly slow to show a slight amount of disinterest to get the girl wanting more for date #2.
Anyways at the end of the evening she asks me not to tell our boss about us going out since she says our boss thinks im into her allready where she doesnt like us doing things together during the job not to mention a relationship would upset the boss even more. I kindly agreed but what startled me is the fact she said relationship and also during the date kidded about marriage which to me bothers me since I assume she can be immature being only 18y/o. What do you ladies and gents feel on that aspect.
More or less I think im in if I make anymore on her its just I dont want to get stuck with someone whos going to hassel me or think its something much more at such an early point in the relationship. Any info will be much appreciated.