"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheNewStyle123

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Despite the comments above, there's nothing wrong with asking questions to your fellow men about dating/sexual dynamics. You'll notice that most of the above didn't actually offer constructive advice. Instead, they took this as an opportunity to talk about themselves. --- consider the sources.

Unspoken 'codes' will vary - depending on the woman, her sexual attitude etc... In this day and age, there really isn't a 'set protocol.' From a psychology standpoint, you've done well - by not appearing too 'hungry.' As long as you don't give off a 'friend vibe' there's a good chance that she will probably attempt to seduce you.

You are still in the early stages with this woman. Sex does not necessarily equate to getting serious with each other. If you two are able to communicate with each other this openly, that's not a bad thing. Remember, however that a woman's actions will always speak louder than her words.

Keep us posted on things.
@Black Widow Void always coming in hot - takin' shots and giving grade A advice. Love it man.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Been talking to her every day. She has hepatit and got it from random guy. Condom sex is ok but im nervous. I have a kid....
Det know What to do about it. End it(?)
Look up the symptoms and see if a life of pestilence is worth it for 10 minutes of pleasure.
 
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