"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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New girl, Xmas coming.

playerone

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I was out tonight and saw this girl at an eating place near where i stay. She looked familiar and i realised she was a fellow primary schoolmate. I sat down with my friends, and she was with a female friend too. We were a few seats away, and i caught her looking in my direction, not sure if it was at me though. I gave her a "Do i know you?" look, and we maintained eye contact for about 5 seconds. Later, her friend went to get some food, so she was left alone.

I went up to her table and said, "Hey.. your primary school is Princess Elizabeth? (that's the name of my sch)". She replied yeah and i continued to ask her "Do you remember me?". She said i look familiar, and i proceeded to say, "You have MSN right? Give me your email address", as i took out my cell phone and handed it to her. As she was entering her email into my phone, i said, "So what are you doing here?". She said she just came to eat, and i was wondering why she was dressed nicely just to have a meal so i said "So you live here?". She said yeah and handed me my cell phone back. So i went back to my table to join my friends for a meal.

I walked past her table later, and didn't give her any eye contact whatever, I didn't even look at her. And afterwards i left the place.

So, now i'm thinking whether to add her on MSN and start the talking like tomorrow, or give it a few days. I'm in doubt because it's a few more days to XMAS. And i'm thinking if i could set a date for any day next week, doesn't have to be on XMAS day itself.

What do you guys think? I need some help, I want this girl but i'm staying wuss-free at the same time. Any genuine advice is greatly appreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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First, why did you ask for her e-mail and not her phone number? Atleast she gave you her e-mail though...

You didn't really make much of a conversation with her. Besides, asking if you remember each other and what her e-mail was. But, wait like a day and e-mail her saying something like; It was good seeing you again. We should catch up sometime before christmas. - Cause, christmas is getting close and people are usually busy with their familys.

If she agrees then, take it from there.
 

playerone

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Coz' i'm in an asian country, and we use MSN more so it's more comfortable instead of giving numbers which would feel a little intruding sometimes. I'm going to get her number after chatting her up and setting up a date. I've waited a day to add her up, and she hasn't been online.

We don't read emails a lot here, instant messaging is too widely used. Hence, i'm going to have to wait til' she gets online.

Thanks.
 

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ROFL

I asked whats her email and handed her my phone!!! Funniest thing i have read on these forums in a while.....

ahahhah
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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