Desert Fox
Master Don Juan
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- Feb 16, 2008
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Hi guys,
I've been seeing this one girl i will cal new girl. New girl is very cute, I like her, I like spending time with her. Everything is great.
However my oneitis from before, old girl, is back now and is putting the moves on me. I have not seen her in 4 years and I've changed massively for the better. I've really surged ahead in my work and look a lot better. She is out of a relationship and is vying for my attention right now. I have to admit, this feels really good since it makes me feel like everything I've endured to improve myself has been worth it.
But my dilemma is who to choose between this old girl and new girl. The old girl was my oneitis as before so I'm being cautious since she still may think she has control over me and can get me to be her lap dog. I was an AFC back then and she took advantage of me like that, but hey I was a dumbass AFC. In any case, this new girl met me as the new me and she has been great, a very simple and consistent gal, which is rare.
I am kind of torn over this, which is probably not as huge a deal as I'm making it, but I really like the new girl, yet the old girl is a constant reminder of what could've been...or it could just be mistake #2 for me.
In my gut I want to kind of see what will happen with old girl, but of course this means new girl will be gone. However my mind is saying, this will end as a disaster and I should just stick with the new girl...my gut is winning, but i know I should just keep it platonic w/old girl and explain I have new girl now...any thoughts...i feel like i know the right answer is to forget her...forget this goddamn oneitis, but I need a *****slap from someone else, namely you guys thanks
I've been seeing this one girl i will cal new girl. New girl is very cute, I like her, I like spending time with her. Everything is great.
However my oneitis from before, old girl, is back now and is putting the moves on me. I have not seen her in 4 years and I've changed massively for the better. I've really surged ahead in my work and look a lot better. She is out of a relationship and is vying for my attention right now. I have to admit, this feels really good since it makes me feel like everything I've endured to improve myself has been worth it.
But my dilemma is who to choose between this old girl and new girl. The old girl was my oneitis as before so I'm being cautious since she still may think she has control over me and can get me to be her lap dog. I was an AFC back then and she took advantage of me like that, but hey I was a dumbass AFC. In any case, this new girl met me as the new me and she has been great, a very simple and consistent gal, which is rare.
I am kind of torn over this, which is probably not as huge a deal as I'm making it, but I really like the new girl, yet the old girl is a constant reminder of what could've been...or it could just be mistake #2 for me.
In my gut I want to kind of see what will happen with old girl, but of course this means new girl will be gone. However my mind is saying, this will end as a disaster and I should just stick with the new girl...my gut is winning, but i know I should just keep it platonic w/old girl and explain I have new girl now...any thoughts...i feel like i know the right answer is to forget her...forget this goddamn oneitis, but I need a *****slap from someone else, namely you guys thanks