"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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New Girl straight off Hot or Not that will be attending my school soon

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Im just wondering about this chick and I don't know if she is worthy enough to go out with and possibly take it even further than that. She is a HB 8 but she says she is into Sex-Drugs and Rock and Roll I haven't asked her what drugs but it might be some hard stuff. Here is her profile. She has a high interest level though cause she gave me her personal email address and AIM name on the first note I sent her. This is her profile http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=GSBSBLE

and this is mine:
http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=GSAQKUB well let me know fellas what you think and if this is a bad idea or what later.
OUgoalie
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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snintel

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What is the point of this thread??




Jesus, this forum is going down quick.
 

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My point if it wasn't clear enough to begin with is that Im not sure to go out with a chick that has done drugs in her past and present. Even though she is hot as hell and is very interested in me. Damn do I have to spell things out or something.

OUgoalie
 

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Ok f*** you guys. You people use women to begin with like trash and just throw their lives away. Don't even bother replying to this thread if you don't have helpful advise and not some player **** that everyone uses to make themselves feel better....

OUgoalie
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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everyone should go out and SARGE. ive had time off from sarging and icant wait to get back into it. I been reading alot of stuff from style, david deangelo, and swinggcat who IMO gives really solid advice. Ps that gurl in that pic is like hb6 max
 

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Originally posted by ougoalie
Ok f*** you guys. You people use women to begin with like trash and just throw their lives away. Don't even bother replying to this thread if you don't have helpful advise and not some player **** that everyone uses to make themselves feel better....

OUgoalie
I like to get trashed, not use people as trash. Dude, get your sh*t right, go buy that new Slipknot album, hit your mom and come back when you're ready to become a Jedi, I mean Don Juan.
 

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Originally posted by ougoalie
My point if it wasn't clear enough to begin with is that Im not sure to go out with a chick that has done drugs in her past and present. Even though she is hot as hell and is very interested in me. Damn do I have to spell things out or something.

OUgoalie
If you have to "concider" going out with a girl that's done/doing drugs, then the awnser is NO because you aren't prepared for that type of lifestyle. This is just like all these post about whether or not to date a stripper, again if you have to ask you obviously dont' understand the lifestyle and aren't playing on the same level so don't do it.
 

qweretyuiopas

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Its up 2 you if you wanna persue that or not, but Ill tell u this that was a tiny ass pic of that chick.
 

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Once again the rating system does not work.......She is sooooooo not an HB8, JC already said it......she is a 5 at best.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by ougoalie
Ok f*** you guys. You people use women to begin with like trash and just throw their lives away. Don't even bother replying to this thread if you don't have helpful advise and not some player **** that everyone uses to make themselves feel better....

OUgoalie
How do we use women like trash? I never force a woman to do anything she doesn't want to.
 

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What kind of answer are you looking for? How can anybody here help you with it? If you're asking me, I'd bang her out. Unless she is stealing money out of my wallet to buy heroin to jam into her veins, I'd hit it.

But I'm not you. You don't date rock & rollers, and I don't start stupid threads.
 
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