New girl! lol

[seloco]

i need some masters for this New girl! lol

there is this new girl in my US history class. she just moved here from mexico, she's very smart, knows english. B-E-A-U-TI-FUL
I know she likes me, ill say something stupid on purpos and she laughs.(easy test) She smiles at me every time i see her. and to day i was walking down the hall and she was in her locker with her friend (that i dont know...yet) and her friend said something to her and she turned around and smiled and giggled.lol i dont want to rush it.
i was thinking about backing off and getting to know her on a friend kinda way.(so she feels confrontable)

Any ideas?

 

[TonyTheTigerOI]

Yeah. Ive got a great idea. Admit youre scared of her. Slap yourself for even thinking of taking a step back. Approach/#close her for a simple "get together" so that she can teach you spanish and you can teach her japaneese. If she asks if you actually know japaneese, smile, and say she'll have to find out. Get her #, call it, set up a meet, and then have sex with her. Done.

 

[seloco]

Thanx!

thats funny! lol its not that im afriad im just stepping back to look at whole situation. i have bad habit of jumping gun.. Great idea on the teaching spanish thing ill try that! lol
thanx

 

[seloco]

ok heres the lasted

Its lunch time, i have a fake spanish assignment (some kid let

me have it) i walk up to her. right when i do theres a fight that

happens 2 feet awy! (freakin awesome kid got his jaw broke)

so i took it up on the oppertunity to talk to her about the fight.

as im sitting there i ask her if she can help me with my spanish

home work(i dont eveny have spanish lol). she says yes, she

helps me etc. my buddie is going after her friend (mexican to)

he gets her number!!!!!!(her friend) damn he's good. i was to

seconds away from asking her and i froze!!!! she dont know it

though. thank the holy one above. Damn i am scared! some one

give me some ideas to get out of this scared mode!

 

[HHloser2]

Scared? lol you obviously like her ALOT to be getting "scared" Just go on ask her.

 

[FullyLoaded]

Dont Rush into her number just yet. Get her MSN or AIM or Whatever. Talk to her on there and get used to be friends over that. Alot easier asking for an email then the number. Ask the number later when both of you are used to eachother.

 

[seloco]

im not sure about the whole email thing. sounds a little nerdy (no

offence) i could just keep hitting on her in class

Today i took tonys advice above.

me- man i have this long story i have to translate! you know i
think you should help me.
girl- me?
me- yea, you teach me spanish and ill teach you japenese.
Girl- ok ill help you in class (i have 2nd period with her, History)
me- k

thats what happen. man! i need some work! i diddent say

anything about getting her number! im still kicking my self!

What would be a good way to get the number from this position?

 

[Cloud-uk]

Originally posted by FullyLoaded
Dont Rush into her number just yet. Get her MSN or AIM or Whatever. Talk to her on there and get used to be friends over that. Alot easier asking for an email then the number. Ask the number later when both of you are used to eachother.

FullyLoaded, I don't threaten people over the internet.

But Damn man...

Read the DJ Bible, and listen to my advice- don't post bad questions that sound like you don't have a clue, but for the love of poon if you ignore that rule don't give advice like that to another guy who might take it seriously!

If you need to know why what you are saying is so wrong PM me, I don't mind giving you a shortcut to the answer, but if you go and find it yourself that would be great too.

Seloco, ignore his post, get the number, if you want to come off like a bad ass genius go onto kaz za and do a search for "japanese lessons". Should be able to find an audio book series that will teach you basic japanese.

Anatawa nihongoga ikimaska?

 

[seloco]

how would i go about getting the number through?

do i just ask her? "hey i think you should give me your number so you can help me?"

som thin like that or what?

 

[seloco]

also, i heard that mexican girls give mixed signals any info on this? dont forget question above to.

 

[NotaGoatLover]

don't make anything you do with a girl too, IMPORTANT....

 

[Climax]

My 2c on this...

seloco: You are still at the stage where you are scared of rejection... but think of it this way... how would you feel if SHE came up to you and asked YOU for your number? you would be pretty happy about it right? Well this girl seems to be interested in you, and as much as you might think that she might say "no" or not like the idea of you asking her for her number, most girls LOVE it when guys ask them for their numbers.

Now if I were in your position, when I am about to leave her after her helping me with Spanish, I would say "what’s your number? If I get stuck with anything I’ll give u a call" (Notice that u are asking her what her number is, u are NOT asking her if u can have it, there is a difference) Anyways, after you get her number, which she WILL give to you if u ask her (and by the way, by NOW she is probably wondering why u HAVNT asked her for her number already) you need to wait a few days before actually calling her, but until then, talk to her at school and get closer to her, BEFRIEND her! Then after a few days, phone her, ask her a question or 2 about Spanish, then change the subject to something u wanna talk about, get to know her, flirt abit etc, then after the 2 of you have developed a good enough friendship, suggest that the 2 of you get together over a week end or something, and slowly slowly get closer and closer to her, increase her interest in you, and then progress. Good luck...


Laterz...

 

[seloco]

thanx ~ªêQµïTª$~ you were alot of help! ill keep it posted what

happens tomarrow!

next week her sister and my friend are going to the movies,

should i use this and ask her if she would want to go to? or

should i make the first date alone? he just asked her sister for

her phone number yesterday. maybe if she had her sisiter there

she would feel more safe?

 

[jakeyboy]

you can say this to her one day after class

hey (insert name here)

i'd really like to hang out with you sometime outside of class...
write down your number for me will ya? -grin-


it's worked for me. keep your cool mate, you're sounding like you're gonna jump the gun any second and profess your undying love for her...

all the best... and remember... RELAX and SMILE.

 

[seloco]

also, i heard that mexican girls give mixed signals any info on this?

happens tomarrow!

next week her sister and my friend are going to the movies,

should i use this and ask her if she would want to go to? or

should i make the first date alone? he just asked her sister for

her phone number yesterday. maybe if she had her sisiter there

she would feel more safe?





thanx for info, but above question are still there

 

[FullyLoaded]

Originally posted by Cloud-uk
FullyLoaded, I don't threaten people over the internet.

But Damn man...

Read the DJ Bible, and listen to my advice- don't post bad questions that sound like you don't have a clue, but for the love of poon if you ignore that rule don't give advice like that to another guy who might take it seriously!

What are you talking about? You're saying I cant give advice from personal experiences? It was the easiest way for me to get used to the girl before she became my girlfriend. We didnt talk that much and I found that using a messenger we became closer and closer until She Approached me. We just found it easier to open up to eachother over a messenger. Just because your advice may be of great help sometimes. Doesnt mean you can say that mine is useless. Chill out.

 

[dastal]

talk to her in some bullsht spanish or something

i keep making up sht like " tu es un girlo" some really bad spanish. they think its hilarious.

 

[Climax]

hmmm...

Originally posted by seloco
also, i heard that mexican girls give mixed signals any info on this?

happens tomarrow!

next week her sister and my friend are going to the movies,

should i use this and ask her if she would want to go to? or

should i make the first date alone? he just asked her sister for

her phone number yesterday. maybe if she had her sisiter there

she would feel more safe?





thanx for info, but above question are still there

If you can get her alone, then that’s great, but there is no rush... She hardly knows you, so being ALONE with her might be a little awkward, so maybe going in a group for the 1st time would be a wiser choice, then when the 2 of you are more comfortable around one another, THEN you can get together with her, ALONE. So yes, go with her, her sister, and the other guy for the 1st time, and take that opportunity to get to know her better and make her feel comfortable around you, then speak to her at school often, then progress from there ... Good luck.


Laterz...

 

[seloco]

dont know how it happened

some how we got to writting notes back anf forth

Girl- so does micheal like my sister?

me- yea he does

girl- does he do drugs?

me- no hes a good kid. so when we ganna together so you can teach me some spanish and ill teach you some japenese

girl- i dont like japenese. but ill teach you spanish.

me- so when we ganna meet up?

she diddent write back. because the teacher was there
so ten min latter i wrote to her and here it is.

me- so does your sister like micheal?

girl- i guess so! i like him he's so cute

me- he really likes your sister.

girl- thats alright.... i like two other guys

me-who are they?

girl- tracy (he's a kid that wears all abrocrobre bullcarp, alot of girls think he's hot)and this other kid that wears sun glasses(his name is dagger, and he's an islander that moved here)

end of note bell rang

im at a loss of word can any one help?

after this period im ganna ask her for her number "whats your number? just in case i get stuck."