New girl is too clingy

[Chewy Bagel]

I took a 35yo woman out on a date on Monday (8/25). We didn't have sex, but we did just about everything else. Now, she's asking me questions like, "where do you think this is going?" and, "What do you think about during the day?" and "Since you just got out of a relationship, you're probably going to want to play the field, right?". Geez! Such loaded questions! One date and the girl seems like she's trying to corner me into a LTR. I just want to fukk her and hang out. I just got out of a 4.5 year relationship less than a week ago for God's sake!

I'm planning on telling her what she wants to hear until I get what I want. After that, if she continues with this clingy behavior, then I'm out.

Off topic: I watched two movies last night - LOTR: The Twin Towers (it was ok) and GO! (great flick)

Cheers!

 

[Reto]

I get that too. I always say, "one day at a time. No expectations..." I think it keeps things open. Too, for me anyway, I don't get emotionally attached when I have no expectations...

I've been seeing my current for nearly a year. (Off and on). The other day she goes, " I know you love me"...I respond, "Sweetie, you'll know when I "Love" you"... As it's going, I'll never say it...LOL....

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Go is a great film - gotta love the cute blonde

 

[Leykis]

I'm planning on telling her what she wants to hear until I get what I want. After that, if she continues with this clingy behavior, then I'm out.

Careful, I had a similar situation and I stayed around for about 2 and a half months (the sex was good). If you lead a chick like this on its hard to end it without coming off like an a$$hole. I dont think its worth it.

Good Luck!

 

[tomyv]

don't play it that way

Just be like, I'm really just enjoying life right now. And when she asks "where is this going", tell her it's going straight to her pants, just kidding. Just be cool about it and tell her, we'll see. Keep the mystery going, you'll be bangin it in no time, and you really don't have to "lie" to her.