"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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new girl in school, Ex GF gets involved.

Latim

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There's a new hot girl in school, but as soon as she entered my Ex decides to make her join their group. Now I personally don't talk to much to my exes and I know she's **** blocked me a lot. Add to this there's always a bunch of low value guys hovering round her. How do I go about this? Chill back again and wait for the attention to die down? Or any better advice that I'm missing out on?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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scrouds

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Just bust in there and take what you want.

That's all the advice. Stop reading. No more. What are you waiting for? Go. Take.
 

Latim

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Your right. I'm just making excuses aren't I? I think it's just time to go in and step up that game. One last thing, if and when my ex tries getting involved would you recommend to just brush it off and blank her out?
 

Kal0051

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if your ex gets involved why don't you just call her out on being a *****? Because really that's what she would be.
 
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