"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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new girl in school, Ex GF gets involved.

Latim

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There's a new hot girl in school, but as soon as she entered my Ex decides to make her join their group. Now I personally don't talk to much to my exes and I know she's **** blocked me a lot. Add to this there's always a bunch of low value guys hovering round her. How do I go about this? Chill back again and wait for the attention to die down? Or any better advice that I'm missing out on?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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scrouds

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Just bust in there and take what you want.

That's all the advice. Stop reading. No more. What are you waiting for? Go. Take.
 

Latim

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Your right. I'm just making excuses aren't I? I think it's just time to go in and step up that game. One last thing, if and when my ex tries getting involved would you recommend to just brush it off and blank her out?
 

Kal0051

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if your ex gets involved why don't you just call her out on being a *****? Because really that's what she would be.
 
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