new girl in my apt- got number

[mattl182001]

Update: She finally texts me back at 930pm saying:

"Hey sorry I never got back to you...I have a deadline tomorrow so I've been kinda swamped...rain check?"

I don't plan on responding. Interest level is clearly low.. May hit her up in a week or two.

Thoughts?

 

[TheCWord]

Update: She finally texts me back at 930pm saying:

"Hey sorry I never got back to you...I have a deadline tomorrow so I've been kinda swamped...rain check?"

I don't plan on responding. Interest level is clearly low.. May hit her up in a week or two.

Thoughts?

Yup. When they say rain check I'll do exactly that - drop her a line in a week or two. If she doesn't go along with plans or make a specific counter off at that point then I guess she's decided it's just going to keep raining.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

I hate this too. Very annoying. I still haven't heard anything all day, so definitely seems her interest level is low. No biggies.. just bonus plate potential. I'll see her at the pool this summer

Like you said man look @ this like pratice! You got her # on the 18th & you randomly asked her out the next day. Sorry man sounds pretty eager to me & now you are annoyed you haven't heard anything all day? Build some more rapport man slow it down a notch, she barely knows you so yeah IL is prolly low. You are on the right track thought good stuff!

 

[mattl182001]

Like you said man look @ this like pratice! You got her # on the 18th & you randomly asked her out the next day. Sorry man sounds pretty eager to me & now you are annoyed you haven't heard anything all day? Build some more rapport man slow it down a notch, she barely knows you so yeah IL is prolly low. You are on the right track thought good stuff!

Thanks for the response!
Yep, good practice and will learn from it. I felt the interest was high after the first meeting so my logic was to 'strike while the iron is hot' and keep the momentum going. Other hand is that you get into texting/calling forever which as been discussed. A chance you have to take...

How would you have handled it different? I like hearing others' strategy.

 

[mattl182001]

Update: So I never responded to her last text she sent a couple days ago asking for a rain check. Last night she calls me around 1am. I let it ring and didn't answer. She immediately calls a second time and again I don't answer. (Couldn't have answered anyway because I was actually in bed with a chick from tinder, lol). After they second call, she sends me a text saying "no, ok then". An hour later I respond with "hey just saw you called what's up?". She replies, "I was walking home alone and needed some company" and I replied "sorry couldn't talk" and she says "no worries".

To me it clearly seems she's annoyed I wasn't responding. What do you guys think? And lesson learned- keep those plates spinning and be patient!

Next move? Was thinking play text game and meet up naturally.