New girl hanging out with, how to show just friendship not relationship

[shyguy]

Well im back after a long time, couple years. Well i dont have time to search ou t the site now and im hanging out with the chick tonight. Basically i wouldnt waste all master don juans time out there.

Anyways im hanging out with a chick at work, knew she liked me and im attracted to her, but i really dont want to get into a relationship with her. I just think she is a good person to go out with and have a good time.

How do u make it clear it is just a friend thing. we went out only one time before and i paid for the night out which was a mistake i guess. But how do i go about making this line of just friends?

I dont know what im going to do tonight with her, but i want intentions to be clear.

She offers to pay i let her? when the night ends dont make moves on her. maybe i should just come out and ask what she is looking for? maybe im just playing this situation up way to much and should just chill out and see what happens?

Also i dont want the relationship thing cause im worried about my time, i dont have much and never had one before. im 21 and she is 18.

u guys know what im trying to get to here, any advice on this topic i appreciate it

 

[Legend]

Dont touch her and talk about other females around her or even to her. Whenever i am with a girl i know digs me and i dont dig her, i just talk about my plans with other girls and treat her like a bud instead of an love interest.

Beware my friend, giving her the LJBF might get her wanting you more

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by shyguy
Anyways im hanging out with a chick at work, knew she liked me and im attracted to her, but i really dont want to get into a relationship with her. I just think she is a good person to go out with and have a good time.

Dude, are you SURE your not gay? If not, then don't hang with her. basically your doing what alot of guys here get from alot of girls they go out with on dates - going out with someone they have no intention of fuking. And it pisses guys off. So don't do it to some chik. I have an idea - You wanna go out as a friend and have a good time - Call one of your boys up. You have a much better time anyways. Only queers and AFC's hang out with girls as a friend. Im assuming your trying not to be either. If you MUST hang out with a girl, take your mom out for dinner - You will be suprised at how much she truly appreciates and enjoys spending time with you.

 

[shyguy]

myfriendblu

damn bro ur on the mark with that comment. even though it is something i didnt want to exactly here, it is the truth.

Well it is so weird, maybe i have to stop beating around the bush here and come right out and sound like alot of other guys. Some days i see this chick and im just like she is okay, then others days im so attracted to her, but at the same time i want someone with more then just looks. our first time hanging out was fun so ill let u guys know what happens. but man thanks for the advice

 

[myfriendblu]

LOL its what Im hear for,
Another thing to remember. EVERY time your out with this chik - Think of all the other girls you come in contact with, but don't show any IL in you because they ASSUME your with this "friend". Your missing out on precious time bro every MINUTE you spend with her.