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Its been about two weeks since the new hotty has made her apperance at work.Shes a wild one and looks very good(i give her 8 1/2).Anyways she has a boyfriend that lives far away but she lives close to our workplace.Ive been playing around with her and shes started flirting with me a lot (touching and all that).She just went on a vacation(yah after two weeks of work lol)and when she gets back i want to start some more flirting but on a heavier note.So what do you think i should do?.Shes a pretty cool chick.Thanks
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Oh wow, that's amazing, I'm in the exact same situation, down to the last detail. This girl has totally locked eyes with me, and she has been very good about just trying to hang around me more. She has a BF though (here we go again, guys). Well, this is like the story of my life. The only hot girls I know are taken, so the only thing to do is just go after them anyways.

The key is to not hook up with them until they've dumped their BF. It may never happen, and you don't have to sit around and wait for it to happen, just make sure you keep tabs on it. I'm working on another one at the same time, and I haven't gotten her to say whether she has a BF yet. This one that I'm talking about above I pretty much backed her into a corner so that she had to say she had a BF or not. I asked her where she lived, and then kept pushing her until she had to say she was living with the BF. She didn't volunteer that info, that's for sure, but it's the only way to know for sure, and when you find out, just play it off like it was nothing, maybe even ask a question or two. She didn't dive any further into that area though. Most of them who have ended up having a BF have sort of mentioned it in passing when they had to, but never just blurted it out for no reason. I had no idea she was even involved before, and she never hinted at it or anything.

Anyways, I know most people will say don't hook up with a girl from work, and in general, they're correct on that. However, if you do it correctly, and aren't just out for a ONS or something, you should be ok, but the suggestion is to not dive into anything too serious until you've gotten all the right signals (meaning that she is definitely the one for you).
 

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I think that you shouldn't partake in a cheating relationship. Sure, invite her to better her life by going out with you instead of her current boyfriend; just don't do the cheating thing, because the most important thing about DJing is self-respect.
 

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Man, this girl at work is getting hotter by the day. Add to that, she is much more receptive to me than my last girl with a BF. She is less conservative though, and I'm more into the more conservative type. This girl has a slightly wild streak in her, but at the same time, she is very disciplined, so she doesn't lose control. She spent lunch alone with me, and took me on a tour and showed me her office and pictures of her and her twin sister (it's amazing that this girl is a twin; the world is very lucky). She's the better looking one of the two though, and actually she's more conservative, she told me.

Her eyes are absolutely unreal, and I get lost in them, and I think she is the same way with mine. I don't think I've had such intense eye contact with a girl before in my life. She just never looks away at all, and we lock like I've never done before. Her body is also about a 9/10, which certainly helps. If you guys have read my past posts, you know that this is a high rating for me. Anyways, this is a tough one, especially right after the last girl I was pursuing who had a BF. It's a close call between the two too, but I'd have to say that this one right now is feeling me much more, while the last one was too insecure to ever break up with her BF.

Anyways, I'd say if you have a girl and you work with her, don't feel you have to hold back if you're both obviously feeling it. I still can't get over how hot this girl is.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

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Oka shes back and theres a whole lot of touching going on.Im not sure what to do but i feel the heat rising each day.Theres this thing she likes to do to me.Ill be in an isle at work(grocery store) and she on purpose bump into me then ill turn around and shell be walking smiling and looking at me(damn she has a nice smile).Anywayz there might not be any messages in that but maybe someone thinks there is.
 
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What I like about the work environment is that it could be more time together with the girl since people at least stay at their jobs for a while, and it's also longer periods of time together, so you really have a lot of opportunities.

The way I see people and relationships in general is that we can look at it from a macro or micro scale. The macro scale would be the world, which means that women can come from any part of the world and you can fall for them. Then, we slowly get more condensed as we move from world --> country --> state --> city --> etc. You get what I mean. Anyways, unless we make a living travelling all over the world, the people we will meet and end up marrying will likely be from a close proximity, and work provides that proximity, which makes it more likely that two people will find each other there. This would be the micro scale. I mean, think about high school, you probably knew a lot of girls there who you liked, and you probably didn't feel the need to go outside of that forum to look for others. Maybe you did anyways, but the point is, convenience is certainly one factor in deciding your potential mate. You're not going to choose a girl who lives across the country who you see once a year over a comparable girl who lives next door.

Anyways, enough of that. You basically have a lot of time to let this bird stew a little bit longer, which means that you don't need to rush things. Women like some buildup, and most that I've known were not eager to jump into anything serious right away. I'd keep doing what you're doing, try to look for signals, and then just sort of let nature take its course. Trust me, if you're always together and you both enjoy each other's company, the door will open more and more, and it will be more and more obvious that you two should become more than just office acquaintances.

Think about movie stars. I did the acting thing when I was in high school, mostly extra work and one thing I've learned is that people get into the entertainment biz partly because you'll be surrounded by good looking people all the time, which means that most of your hook-ups will be with people who are physically very attractive. Not a bad deal, but a miserable living financially.

Another thing you can probably pull off is to ask her out to lunch, since this type of setup is perfect to do that, being that co-workers always go out to lunch together.
 

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Intraining,

I just started work 2 weeks ago, so it's progressing. Still haven't even met everyone at work yet, since there's so many people.

Anyways, I work in a different building at the moment from this girl, since my company rented out another building temporarily for this particular project I'm working on. I see this girl (HB9 or 10) sometimes, but not really enough at the moment to be able to pull off anything. I also work with another girl who is also about an 8.5 who I see more often, but has a BF. I haven't really done much more than have good eye contact, long conversations, and good repore with this girl.

I really want the other one, who I'm not sure if she has a BF, but would be very surprised if she didn't. We'll see, I'll work my way in there. It's difficult for now since there isn't enough time in the day for me to have face-to-face contact with her.

We're in similar situations, so it will be interesting to see how things turn out over the coming weeks.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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