"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MACBABY

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Whats up my fellow Dj's!

I met this girl today on the bus! this strange old guy starts talking to her. then puts me in the conversation. We start to look at each other and making strange faces. the older guy gets off the bus and we start talking about him! After the discussion about the old guy she starts to tell me about were she works, days she works and her hours in detail. Short conversation continues till it's time for her stop which just happens to be mines also but she didn't know it. she gets up thenshe walks back to were i'm sitting extends her hand and sez my name is Kendall nice meeting you and starts to exit the bus. I exit right behind her and she looks back and sez "oh this is your stop too", i smile and just say "yes and have a nice day! and she walks off.'


i really want to talk to her more! i went to her first job on my lunch break and had just missed her! I didn't go to her second but i really wanted too. right now i have the phone number to her job i got off the net.

Should I call her at her job since i didn't get the number from her and if so what should i say to her so i don't freek her out...

thanks for the help!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LouieVaton Don

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Originally posted by MACBABY


Should I call her at her job since i didn't get the number from her and if so what should i say to her so i don't freek her out...

thanks for the help!
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NO!!!!!!!! Don't just call her like that, you'll seem like some sort of weirdo. Either go into the establishment and number close her or hope to see her on the bus again and go for the number close. You really blew it the first time dawg.
 
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I think your right thats what i was thinking too!
But wouldn't going to her job seem kinda strange too?
I thinking of what to say to her now! she already know i don't have a video card there!

thanx for the advise!
 
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IMPOSTER

IMPOSTER!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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imposter! I dont get it man! nor can i sing!
 
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