"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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new ghetto girl at work

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When i came into work this morning this new girl was doin orientation. I was just getting settled but I knew the first step is to associate yourself with touch, kinesthetics. She has about 6 tattoos, one the name of her 1 month old baby.

I mentioned her tattoos and applied kinesthetics, also mentioned her really thick arms, not really. Mentioned how my cousins wife got so fat after having a baby and applied kinesthetics to her stomach and asked her if she was ticklish.

We Watched some tv and she had a question about the register and I showed her how to do it.

One thing that was unexpected was while i was helping her, she let her thick breast lean on my arm. I went to the different register and she did the same thing again, also acting aloof. Through the course of 4 hours when ever her breasts were close to my arms, they were in contact. She acted like it was normal, and for me I was goin out of control down there.. lol

Anyway, anyone have a similar experience, what is the next step, I don't know if she is married or not. Have a good night
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women will allow themselves to be subtly touched by someone they're comfortable around. You can automatically tell if someone is uncomfortable when the touch is accidental, such as moving their arm if it happens to touch yours.

The touch may have been accidental, but she was comfortable enough around you to keep physical contact. It's a good sign.

The next step? Go out and date a different woman. Why?

1) Don't stick your d1nk in the company ink
2) She's got baggage
 

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a wise man told me "don't stick your pecker in your paycheck"

but then again i'm not the wise man so F" dat i'd try to do her

just be aware of the consequences

p.s why in the fVck is it that the black chicks are always available after they have a baby and regular guys don't want them no more b/c of it........I hate dat sh!t...and i prefer my chicks w/o babies for that matter but hey this world aint perfect!!!
 

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I would never touch a chick with bagage. (Child) That **** scares me. Im nearly 21....Still far to young for any kid to see me as anything other than an adult. As for putting your pecker in your paycheck. I cant say I wouldnt do that as I am advancing (Very slowly and carefully) on a chick at my work. I am taking it very slow so I dont **** the job up..


My advice to you would be to take it slow. Find other chicks while you do.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you wouldn't mind losing your job, go ahead and make the moves on her.

Otherwise, keep the work chit-chat to just work-related stuff, and cut out the flirting entirely. You and her should speak only about work, or general niceties/common smalltalk.
 

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Thanks for all your replies, ive changed my mind to just play it cool


Originally posted by Don Ronny
Why dont you tell her about Jesus?
Have you thought about Accepting God's free gift of eternal life?
 

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Ask her out and invite her home afterwords.She's a hoe.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The new chick i'm messin with now have's a baby..........

and i'm like Fvck it....i want her though..

Guys find out a girl has a baby and we automatically get turned off by it...I know I did the 1st chick i messed with...

Now it's like man if she got a baby she got a baby that's just what it is...I'ma be a MAN about ma sh!t if i want her bad enough i must be ready to take on her baggage.

This has nothing to do with being a DJ more of a LTR kinda guy
 

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Id bang her if I was me. I dont care about her 1 month old because im not babys daddy nor would I plan to be.
 

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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
am i the only one who thinks this is a fake post :confused:
I don't know what gain do i have if this was fake :confused:

anyway, just slightly flirted with her today and smacked her behind in the back room when I was making fun of her, that was it.

THe next oppurtunity i have, I'll say to her and be like.. There something on your back pocket of your pants, then slap as hard as i can.. lol :p
 
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