"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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New GF to Jail

SmooveMooves

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Started a relationship about 2 weeks ago. Knew prior she was in legal trouble. Now she's facing a brief stint. Not longer than a month. What do you do?

I was sticking to only seeing her 2-3 times a week. But now I kinda feel shítty because she's facing jail time and whatnot.

Thoughts?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bible_Belt

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3x a week is every other day. I'm sure she's scared if she's never been to jail before, but people who have been to jail would laugh at the idea of being scared over doing a couple weeks. It's not a big deal.
 

El Payaso

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What's she going to jail for?
 

SmooveMooves

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@El Payaso A petty crime. She had terrible lawyer.

@KingofPuss She isn't staying long enough for that lol. And I think that's only for prisoners. She's going to jail.

I don't think my question was understood. I mean leading up unto the day she goes to jail. Should I give her the pass of more than 3 days? Or rather, what would you do?
 

Desdinova

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Haha I was joking man. I would see other women until she gets out.
I concur.

I dated a chick once who ended up going to jail. I didn't pursue anything afterwards because she was a fvck up in other areas of her life. I got what I wanted out of her; a chance to finally see that gorgeous ass (I'd known her for 4 years) and I fvcked the hell out of her a few times.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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logicallefty

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Going to jail in itself wouldn't necessarily make me next a woman. I'd need to hear her side of the story and then do a little discovery of my own if something she told me didn't add up. If I found out she lied that would probably do it.
 
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