Lately what I have been doing an experiment; intentionally taking it very very slow on dates....
I would initially escalate kino just enough to stay out of the friend zone. Then I will back off and say things like "Oh hey let me call you back, I'm hanging out with a friend"(on my cell to some that calls) but at same time telling stories that DHV. By this time most of them are trying to qualify them selves to me. I also create almost kiss moments by using the eye contact but not act on it. I also totally control (they jump a lot of hoops for me) whole date from first meeting to when I end it. I usually end the date with a hug. She in most cases sets up future plans for us to do. Anyways this process was some thing I'm trying out to actually get to know girls, it seems really natural too. Iv been trying this for about two months now. I think the key is to have lots of plates spinning so you can actually do this. Any ways let me know what you guys think.
I would initially escalate kino just enough to stay out of the friend zone. Then I will back off and say things like "Oh hey let me call you back, I'm hanging out with a friend"(on my cell to some that calls) but at same time telling stories that DHV. By this time most of them are trying to qualify them selves to me. I also create almost kiss moments by using the eye contact but not act on it. I also totally control (they jump a lot of hoops for me) whole date from first meeting to when I end it. I usually end the date with a hug. She in most cases sets up future plans for us to do. Anyways this process was some thing I'm trying out to actually get to know girls, it seems really natural too. Iv been trying this for about two months now. I think the key is to have lots of plates spinning so you can actually do this. Any ways let me know what you guys think.