Safe to say as my game gets better my issues with women evolve and I am still learning a lot. Now instead of not getting laid, I have more plates than I know how to spin. However I met a girl Sat. night through a friends, gf and she was apparently really into me. We had awesome sex and spent the night together. In the morning we said our goodbyes and I told her I would get her number, through my friend because she was in a rush for work. Fast forward to today, I added her on Facebook and shot her a text so she has my number. Hit her up around noon, still no response, no friend acceptance. I know she is glued to her phone 24/7 and has definitely seen the text/request. I have a good intuition about these things and since I haven't got a response I feel that she has lost interest. Wtf? Either she was a virgin and doesn't know how to act w/ me now (she was extremely tight) or I came on too "strong" which is BS...cause if I ignored her I would've been labeled an *******...shed some light on this one guys.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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- Thread starter In10se
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
also just as some background info...she is not some playette, she is younger (19) and is leaving for college in the Fall, a thought I entertained is that she is afraid to catch feelings for me because she will have to leave in a few months, but idk if its even worth speculating...eventually my friends GF will find out and explain it to me
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Judge nismo on the case.
Don't think you're the only one after this girl. You will never be the only male after any female. There is an overpopulation of men sadly.
Maybe she got another man. Maybe you were bad in bed. Maybe you got attached. Maybe you're pu$$y whipped. Stop analyzing. Whtever the case may be, there's no good in this that is for you.
AFAIC, your princess is in another castle, every woman is a playerette, and she's just not that into you anymore. Women's options are damn infinite, and they have no problem cutting you. :kick:
So move on and spin more plates. Court's orders. :wave:
Case closed.
Don't think you're the only one after this girl. You will never be the only male after any female. There is an overpopulation of men sadly.
Maybe she got another man. Maybe you were bad in bed. Maybe you got attached. Maybe you're pu$$y whipped. Stop analyzing. Whtever the case may be, there's no good in this that is for you.
AFAIC, your princess is in another castle, every woman is a playerette, and she's just not that into you anymore. Women's options are damn infinite, and they have no problem cutting you. :kick:
So move on and spin more plates. Court's orders. :wave:
Case closed.
Could also be that she is trying to make you chase a little now because she gave herself away before.....ooooorrr that you weren't great in bed. OOrrrr that she felt slutty after and associated you with slutty, dirty feelings