Safe to say as my game gets better my issues with women evolve and I am still learning a lot. Now instead of not getting laid, I have more plates than I know how to spin. However I met a girl Sat. night through a friends, gf and she was apparently really into me. We had awesome sex and spent the night together. In the morning we said our goodbyes and I told her I would get her number, through my friend because she was in a rush for work. Fast forward to today, I added her on Facebook and shot her a text so she has my number. Hit her up around noon, still no response, no friend acceptance. I know she is glued to her phone 24/7 and has definitely seen the text/request. I have a good intuition about these things and since I haven't got a response I feel that she has lost interest. Wtf? Either she was a virgin and doesn't know how to act w/ me now (she was extremely tight) or I came on too "strong" which is BS...cause if I ignored her I would've been labeled an *******...shed some light on this one guys.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
also just as some background info...she is not some playette, she is younger (19) and is leaving for college in the Fall, a thought I entertained is that she is afraid to catch feelings for me because she will have to leave in a few months, but idk if its even worth speculating...eventually my friends GF will find out and explain it to me
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Judge nismo on the case.
Don't think you're the only one after this girl. You will never be the only male after any female. There is an overpopulation of men sadly.
Maybe she got another man. Maybe you were bad in bed. Maybe you got attached. Maybe you're pu$$y whipped. Stop analyzing. Whtever the case may be, there's no good in this that is for you.
AFAIC, your princess is in another castle, every woman is a playerette, and she's just not that into you anymore. Women's options are damn infinite, and they have no problem cutting you. :kick:
So move on and spin more plates. Court's orders. :wave:
Case closed.
Don't think you're the only one after this girl. You will never be the only male after any female. There is an overpopulation of men sadly.
Maybe she got another man. Maybe you were bad in bed. Maybe you got attached. Maybe you're pu$$y whipped. Stop analyzing. Whtever the case may be, there's no good in this that is for you.
AFAIC, your princess is in another castle, every woman is a playerette, and she's just not that into you anymore. Women's options are damn infinite, and they have no problem cutting you. :kick:
So move on and spin more plates. Court's orders. :wave:
Case closed.
Could also be that she is trying to make you chase a little now because she gave herself away before.....ooooorrr that you weren't great in bed. OOrrrr that she felt slutty after and associated you with slutty, dirty feelings