"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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New Gadget for AFC's in the future?!

DJDamage

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I saw this episode of "American Inventor", where people make up inventions and then bring it in front of a panel of judges to be judged on whether its worth to invest in it or not.

Anyway one guy came on and had a blue prints for a pocket gadget called "The Wingman". Its basically a hook up digitial device when you go to a bar or anywhere for that matter. You put your picture on it, your hobbies and interests and if a chick who is also single in the bar has this gadget and has similar interests , then her gadget will beep. She will then get to see your picture and profile on her gadget and if she likes it then she will beep you with back and then you can both meet.

Now obviously if you can manufacture it and come up with this product it will be a hit. It will give chicks who crave attention even more attention and it will give guys who have no balls, a buffer to approach in a bar. However once again you lose the personal touch you get from approaching and I think that once the AFC's get an approve from a chick, they still have to open their mouths which will result in exposing their real self and probably a rejection on the spot or following date. The guys who have game will no doubt improve their score. Or maybe it will just be another fad like Facebook and Myspace and nothing will change.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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spesmilitis

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There will always be AFC's and DJ's and the people in between. Having the guts to approach is the just one dimension of masculinity.
 

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You've got to admit, it's a cool idea. I'd lie on it just for ****s and giggles. But would this mean she couldn't read it as well (because it doesn't match)? Because that would eliminate the point. Oh well I'll never own one.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Abbott

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Sounds like a stupid idea, like dating websites.

Plus it gives away too much information, most of which people don't care about.

Do I care what television shows she watches? No, because I don't watch TV.

Does she care that I find technology fascinating, or that I may want to set up a home PBX someday? Probably not, since most chicks don't seem to care about technology.


Also it reduces the potential number of things to talk about.
 

Dark Chivalry

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There was a simpler version of that around years ago. Did not work.
Why would a chick spend $$$$ on a device if she is getting asked out already?
 

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Dark Chivalry said:
There was a simpler version of that around years ago. Did not work.
Why would a chick spend $$$$ on a device if she is getting asked out already?
Which is part of the reason why this is stupid, and why dating websites are stupid as well.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Dark Chivalry said:
There was a simpler version of that around years ago. Did not work.
Why would a chick spend $$$$ on a device if she is getting asked out already?
To easily weed out AFCs who constantly approch them with the same lame lines.
 

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spesmilitis said:
There will always be AFC's and DJ's and the people in between. Having the guts to approach is the just one dimension of masculinity.
Having something interesting to say plays a big part.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dark Chivalry

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If you are not approaching, you may have the world to offer but not many women will get to know you. If you have nothing interesting to say, chicks will get bored and walk away. A device might show a girl you are a decent man on paper, but unless she is enjoying her time spent with you(and she won't if you act all castrato) she is not going to want to spend more time with you.
 
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