"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jmm854

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Hi, I'm an 18 year old who recently graduated high school and start college exactly a month from today. I think the DJ Forums should add a forum for college students like myself to discuss ideas.

From what I've noticed, a large portion of users here are between the ages of 18-22, and many of them also attend a college or university. Obviously, due to many factors, such as the maturity of the women we are surrounded by, living conditions, and more than anything just everyday college life, a forum comprised of college students would be helpful.

Like I said, I start college in a month. I've got absolutely no idea what to expect, even with all the advice I've received about going to school to this point. No doubt, there's plenty of others here in my position, or that have college experience and would like to share ideas with each other. I feel that techniques used in both the high school forum and the don juan forum may not apply to me, and I think the college forum would be a great addition.

Thanks,
Jared
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eternal

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Check the discussion forum. Should be college advice there.
 
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